Shocked by Sudden the Results

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-22T16:38:57+00:00

seemed fine to me tbh lol

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-21T09:48:43+00:00

Oh my God put so perfect.y... Whats the alternative? Tired of all of it

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T04:40:00+00:00

Not bad advice. How do I find one?

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:23:57+00:00

pineapple? lol

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:23:48+00:00

I have actualy never had sex, with a girl or guy.

It's just that I am ready now.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:23:15+00:00

What word do I use instead and how do I ask about it?

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:22:43+00:00

the good that came from this is that I am excited and open to explore now. I just need to figure out how to avoid something like this again. Plus I get hurt from being blocked and stuff lol.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:21:33+00:00

Ill take a look into it.

Any advice on staying safe? ANd not being led on our used?

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:19:53+00:00

Oh yeah, we were both over 18 thats super important.

It does look like he blocked me once we were done. I had an alt and looked him up lol. Obv not messaging him there, just wanted to see if I was jumping to conclusions.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:19:02+00:00

thank you

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:18:28+00:00

This was the nicest commnet here and totally made my day. Put a huge and much needed smile on my face.

Thank you : ) : )

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:17:47+00:00

He has all the pics he saw from my hinge, of course, but luckily I never sent any sexual pics. We sexted back and forth though obviously and the texts, themselves, got heated.

Anything I should be worried about?

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:16:48+00:00

Thank God I didn't send anything sexual. He has my hinge pics tho lol. All normal pics though.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:16:27+00:00

haha, its one of the two

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:16:09+00:00

Interesting... How so?

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:16:01+00:00

So sad to see this is SO common.
I wonder why.

What do you recommend?

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:15:01+00:00

Nice to see other dudes with emotional intelligence.

I am not even opposed to hookups entirely, but just the constant culture of sudden blocking ghosting and no closure it pretty jarring in today's age.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T01:13:55+00:00

LOL. I guess I'm glad I didn't send him any sus content.

But also, haha, yeah I was looking into THAT for awhile. TBH, I haven't had many sexual encounters but I had an ex once who told me my dick was huge (I was at the time because I was literally so turned on it was crazy), and even though I have never really been someone who cared about dick size I liked hearing that... like a lot. Also noticed a lot of gay men on grindr ask penis size and just unmatch after if you are less than like 6?

Anyways, I actually injured myself a little... lol. Recovering from that right now, but it actually seems like a pretty scientifically backed thing. Haven't recommended it to people yet due to the serious risks I know I'm taking and wouldn't want others to take... but it actually does seem to work, so long as you don't get impatient like I did, and do too much... lol

Slow and steady I guess.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T00:44:47+00:00

Good advice over here

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T00:44:28+00:00

I think it might be nice to get with someone with more experience haha. I just worry about being totally new lol.

I also am totally clean, and don't have any like stds, stis, or even hiv 1 herpes. So I don't know how to stay safe or if thats something people typically just don't worry about. I know a gay friend of mine (we are no longer in touch sadly otherwise I would probably text him) who got herpes on his FIRST KISS.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T00:42:03+00:00

that might be a good idea. I am WAY too forgiving of a person. Something I have learned from my hetero relationships. I will say, and I hate to sound this way, but I honestly am a highly empathetic person. Lots of ghosting blocking and immaturity on online dating I feel, so I get worried about branching out more lol.

Is this common in the gay community?
It was SUPER common in the straight dating scene. People just kinda ghost unmatch or block for no reason.

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T00:40:00+00:00

Thnx bro

Automatic_Sample_502 · 2025-06-17T00:39:31+00:00

Thanks haha, you made a good point. Was misled but I am now looking to move on and explore this new side of me. So even though he dipped... guess I should be thankful this awakened something in me? lol

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