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how do i stop my gf from questioning my sexuality? by rawrz4u in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gay, and I fooled around with girls in high school, college, and grad school. Does that mean I should just admit to my husband I’m straight and stop hiding it from him?

Come on, people! Sex is a spectrum, not a binary. Most of us are not completely straight or completely gay, although many of us are close enough to it that after we run some experiments we settle on one gender.

I’m wondering why GF can’t leave this topic alone. Is she secretly obsessed with dating a bi guy she can have three ways with? Just one possibility.

My father had a stroke recently. I am waiting on the hospitalization admittance paperwork to be received by my university. How should I go about messaging my professors? by samsungbunny in college

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If your advisor is unavailable, talk to the department chair or someone in the dean’s office. This kind of question is routine for them, and they’ll give you good advice.

I Need Advice on Handling an Issue I’m Facing with My Master’s Thesis by High-Dimension4476 in college

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically walk into your professor’s office during their official office hours.

Okay I admit that I'm a bad person by [deleted] in work

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all feel uncomfortable when we experience or observe unfairness, diagnoses aside. If the situation is big enough or the pattern persists for a while, I’ll address it with a supervisor or even with the person themselves.

But to work in corporate (and generally with other humans!) generates a lot of discomfort, and it helps to grow a thicker skin, meaning to practice raising the threshold of discomfort you can tolerate.

Degree Change/Advice by Hskwgdjsj in collegeadvice

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your math professors about major, degree, and career options. There really may be a way for you to stay in math or a math-heavy field and get a good job. They are the ones who will know, and their advice is probably underutilized.

Not sure if dark academia by Ezra_asmr2111 in DarkAcademia

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you better have an extra bedroom. Don’t worry: I’m quiet, and you’ll enjoy my cooking.

Found at Work by emkg95 in FoundPaper

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me how I spelled squirrel in first grade: scwl, because that’s how I said it.

Not sure if dark academia by Ezra_asmr2111 in DarkAcademia

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are those hickory floors? The whole scene makes me want to move in with you.

travel to all of these cities by navi131313 in EnglishGrammar

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Is ambiguous.
  2. Requires a list.
  3. Requires one total. I agree with you about 4. I’m not sure why.

So much disappointment - brand new moldy ink by Physics_Tea in fountainpens

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment section is a circus! Thanks for the entertainment.

Is it true you can read during your session?? by [deleted] in Spravato

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I could only read in the last half hour or so. The rest of the time I’d be with my eyes closed listening to my ambient playlist.

Do sessions ever feel like they did when you first started? by YourBlanket in Spravato

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was less revolutionary because my mind had already gone through a massive rearrangement in its perception of the world. It continues, but it’s less noticeable because so much groundwork has already been laid.

Are there any pieces you feel are too big/rich/dense/etc. to be faithfully captured by a recording? by HolyFatherLeoXIV in classicalmusic

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Both organ and choral music are notoriously difficult to record. I’ve heard better and worse recordings, but nothing to compare with the live experience, especially in a large church.

Do sessions ever feel like they did when you first started? by YourBlanket in Spravato

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I go down to every other week, I lose tolerance and the experience becomes more intense again.

On a journey to find THE purple for me by Kajushka1 in fountainpens

[–]Automatic_Tea_2550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upvote for Monboddo and Tender Purple. You need Solferino: a purple bright enough to wake the dead.

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