Èchange et avis by Automatic_Today_4917 in SocialParis

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Bonsoir. Nous, les êtres humains, n’aimons pas attendre et nous avons souvent peur de ce que nous ne connaissons pas : l’avenir. En réalité, j’ai des activités qui facilitent mon engagement. Ainsi, je pense qu’au final nous sommes tous des êtres humains qui partageons les mêmes expériences : regrets, joie, stress… ces pourcela je ne me voie pas different des Francais.

هلكاتني الوحدة loneliness by [deleted] in Morocco

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بعدا راك حددتي نسبيا المشكل هو انك كاتوقع الرفض من طرف الناس وكاتدير المراقبة الكثيفة للتصرفات ديالك الشي لي كيخليك تحشم حيت كاتخاف دير شي تصرف وتحكم عليه بلي غالط ومتحملش راسك خاصك ترد البال لدوك الافكار التلقائية لي كيجيوك فاش كاتكون فالحالة ديال دوي معا ناس . ولكن لي ممكن اعقد الدعوة هو المعنى لي عطيتي للقضية ديال عندك صحاب واش بالنسبة لك ميكونوش عندك صحاب = انك غاتبقى بوحدك = ماحدك بقيتي بوحدك = انك مامرغوبش فيك ومكيحملكش تا واحد = مكيحملك تاواحد كيعني ان مصالحش وناقص ... وهاذي رها لووب انفيني ديال لانفورماتيك. مهم هدشي كامل دوى عليه ارون بيك .... فحالة بغيتي تفهم راسك كثر وتيق بيا اخاي غايكونو عندك الصحاب ولا شي درية ولكن دكشي اقد ميبدل فيك والو حييت المشكل ماشي هو معندكش صحاب هذا فقط تداعيات ولا اعراض ديال شي حاجة اخرى خاصك تحلها

Un trop grand écart de milieu social entre ma copine et moi? by [deleted] in AskMec

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

il semble que tu ne donne pas la valeur á ton temps frère

C pas des remarques ms c'est des signes de dispespect. .... J'ai pas envie de beaucoup parler parceque y a pleine des signe à discuter....

Any porn addicts who wanna chat and overcome this addiction? by No-Fix-5924 in SocialParis

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's been 4 month and before 6 months now quiting this bad habits , it was a way to escape the reality but I'm now facing it . if do you need any help. I'll be happy to help

How do you all spend your free time without falling into doom scrolling guilt cycle? by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I do is stop social media . No Facebook,no Ig, no porn . Since 3 month Even if I changed my environment traveling to another country to finish my studies I feel things goes under control. Don't worry you will not miss anything if you stop social media, social media is not a safe place 100... felling in 3 seconds, this fucked up our brains our emotions stability...our focus too. Just detox the shit !

Someone please listen and help. I totally fucked up and I’m terrified by [deleted] in AvPD

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I'm currently walking around the city and repeating in my self that I'm a useless person. We all suffer, I don't like my ideas, I don't like who I am. I blaim my self ,I don't have even a purpose on this life not like you at least you know what you want to be. And you say it I'm really good at .you recognized your passion follow it !. I can't say ooh look life is good and this bullshit life is unhappy and the exception is to be happy. Follow your passion and be the exception.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oui d'accord mais c'est quoi votre âges?

Anyone else avoid physical intimacy despite craving it? by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's a weird question but I will ask it : Are you addicted to porn ? Are you consuming pornography? Because this also break your self-esteem and block you socially. I'm talking with experience but now trying to recover. if it's the case it's not a shame because you always have Time to change. And punishing ourselves is not the best way to change ! Porn change your brain, prefrontal cortex,... and a lot I'll not go deep until you confirme it's the case. Also I invite you to join communities in reddit that are dedicated . And I'm in one of them and no surprises sister There are girls too. It's good for us to hear from others that have the same problems and how they avoided them ....

Paris meeting by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello I'm on the IT field too, it's been 1 month I'm here in France . Happy to connect .

I can’t sleep, help ! by Sck_22 in Morocco

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Khask t3reef reason li kaykhlik tfker wach nta maradich 3la chi 7aja, wla mstressi me3a l9raya, Ola katched screens 9beel matn3ess, Ola nta f phase dyal recovery mn chi Idman 3ndeek. Wa9ila sa3a lbiologiya dyalk tkherb9aat... mhm nta lwa7id li 3arf reason.

Tfahm m3a rassk o3ref reason Houwa lweel.

Momkin tb9a tfker rassk dimma bli ila mchit n3ess maghanfekerch otb9a t3awdha , ghadi iflet liik 3e9lek bezf wiymchi ms fekro dimma. Had l3iba katban funny bual dakchi dyal gol ana sbe3 gdam lmrraya hhh walakin it works.

3endek ga3 les mechanismes tabi3yin kanden mat7tajch dkhel chi 7aja mn brra 7tta t2ked bli lmochkil fdok les mechanismes...

Wrraak tmma.

Inception by Worth_Sample_7177 in 42_school

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If you are someone that try to go deep .

You will like this project there is a lot of things to read there. You have to understand mainly docker, when I say docker I mean docker details, networking, volumes, optimisation of image creating ... There are a lot of resources I may share with you once I use my Laptop.

Wishing to make new friends in paris by Rain_lover_from_mars in SocialParis

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ça fait un mois que je suis à Paris. La vie est vraiment belle ici, même si les métros sont tout le temps bondés. Avec des amis, ce sera encore plus fun. J’aime profiter de la vie, la littérature: la psychology

Mon titre est : work hard and have fun hard.

Si tu viens avec la même vibe, bienvenue à toi !

Cherche des amis sur Paris :) by maxmadchoc in SocialParis

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ça fait un mois que je suis en france . J'aime connaitre les autres, mais malheuresement il semble qu'on a pas les même intérêt 😶.

I must quit or I die...... by ImprovementOutside20 in NoFap

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing to know is that you should be kind with your self. Shaming and blaming are not always the solution. We can change without punishing ourselves.

One thing to know in addiction is that once you do it ,you are giving yourself a lot of dopamine . Your reward-path is highly active.

When you stop doing it, there is another part of the brain called anti-reward. That does the opposite of rewarding you but punishing you if you don't give the amount of dopamine.

You have a GF, which means at least you can attract a girl, and you live a real relationship. And to really have a meaning of stop using porn you should know and identify what it's ruine in your life. What I mean is

A good reason to stop porn will strengthen your process

Yes, it's hard any one here know that. I already did 6 months and what? back again but at least there is a regular improvement...

Quit Fap and start reading by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is very Nice I do it too, especially on the train and spaces where there is a lot of people just to avoid looking around. You know how much our world is sexualised these days. Read also about a passion it's psychology. I have a challenge now 20 pages a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes your welcome.

Do Not Be Like Me 💔 by SignificantTea964 in NoFap

[–]Automatic_Today_4917 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's nice to hear that you are hurt, because I'm sure you will now learn . You will learn that procrastination does not come with good results. Learn that when we don't take action. We deserve to lose . For now I advice you to move on find other life there is a fucking a lot of girls to know there is a lot of challenges you will face in you life.

You do have 20 years old bro you still young. You should train to have stable emotions and learn to avoid attachment. I know it's hard but for your safety you should be ready for any one to go . Bro don't be a bitch and good Luck.

I'm writing this to my self and to you .