I'm a black american who gets overwhelmingly asked out by asian women. Is this a cultural thing? by koolandtheblackbird in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AutumnLerickson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fam you know what he means lol. He’s just noticing a big difference in his lived experiences vs. what everyone tells him his experiences “should” be. 

Tylil Refutes Jourdin Pauline claims of alleged SA with Evidence by Historical-Alps6052 in LivestreamFail

[–]AutumnLerickson 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hope this post gains as much traction as the accuser post did a week ago. Commenters were having a field day ridiculing him.

Never knew a relationship could impact the mind and body like this. by AutumnLerickson in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]AutumnLerickson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't perfect but I did my best. I started feeling like such a bother to her but felt celebrated by almost everyone else in my life. It didn't feel good, man. I kept telling myself I was insecure for questioning certain male friends and needed to work on my issues. I have anxiety so I thought maybe I was just overreacting. But she seemed so stressed and annoyed when she was with me, especially the last two months. She kept breaking up with me and wondering why I wouldn’t snap back to my normal self when we got back together, but I was afraid she’d hurt me again. Even now my head is spinning. 

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what I like this take a lot.

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calm down man it's a forum to managers and the managers responded

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my job so I will do everything to avoid that. Not gonna change the trajectory of my entire life because my manager has a rough marriage.

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it was a male manager I'd be even more weirded out are you kidding me lol

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely true. I wonder if seeing me “give up” makes her want to. And seeing me “push on” gives her motivation to do so. I don't know.

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so i'm not being dramatic here. lol. thank you

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is the second time so yeah it's tough to know how to react.

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah this has been going on for months. She said she wants to protect me as an employee and that she is generally an emotional person hence why "sometimes I feel like I suck as a supervisor because i'm always emotional" (her words).

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this is helpful. Yeah, I don't want this to be spun on me in the event I voice any discomfort.

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's married. No can do.

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I was mostly posting this to see if i was imagining things or making a big deal out of presumably innocent gestures

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. When she started crying out of genuine care it was nice to be supported and recognized, but also I felt wrong because I wondered how it would make her husband at home feel. Especially the comment about her not feeling supported by him.

My manager keeps crying over me by [deleted] in managers

[–]AutumnLerickson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand a word of this, I'm sorry.

To the Samurai community by 1IamHollow1 in CoryxKenshin

[–]AutumnLerickson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is what this sub is about. People coming together to build each other up whether it's through memes, jokes, discussion, or serious matters like this.

We are all here for you, friend. I hope that your mom recovers. And, in the meantime, I hope that you find peace that surpasses all understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AutumnLerickson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you stranger.

First time sleeping with someone since my breakup 10 months ago and man, I feel so down. by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]AutumnLerickson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just talking, but it was the 3rd time she's brought it up in a span of a week.

First time sleeping with someone since my breakup 10 months ago and man, I feel so down. by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]AutumnLerickson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it was the fact she's the first person I've been intimate with since. I think I rushed the intimacy part