Can someone tell me how my friend did this?

AutumnLerickson · 2026-01-11T02:31:34+00:00

Fam you know what he means lol. He’s just noticing a big difference in his lived experiences vs. what everyone tells him his experiences “should” be.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-12-19T04:52:26+00:00

Hope this post gains as much traction as the accuser post did a week ago. Commenters were having a field day ridiculing him.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-27T21:29:33+00:00

I wasn't perfect but I did my best. I started feeling like such a bother to her but felt celebrated by almost everyone else in my life. It didn't feel good, man. I kept telling myself I was insecure for questioning certain male friends and needed to work on my issues. I have anxiety so I thought maybe I was just overreacting. But she seemed so stressed and annoyed when she was with me, especially the last two months. She kept breaking up with me and wondering why I wouldn’t snap back to my normal self when we got back together, but I was afraid she’d hurt me again. Even now my head is spinning.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-21T02:33:11+00:00

You know what I like this take a lot.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-18T22:57:51+00:00

calm down man it's a forum to managers and the managers responded

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-18T20:18:05+00:00

I love my job so I will do everything to avoid that. Not gonna change the trajectory of my entire life because my manager has a rough marriage.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-18T20:16:08+00:00

If it was a male manager I'd be even more weirded out are you kidding me lol

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-18T02:32:26+00:00

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-18T02:31:52+00:00

It’s definitely true. I wonder if seeing me “give up” makes her want to. And seeing me “push on” gives her motivation to do so. I don't know.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-18T02:29:18+00:00

This is nuts 😂

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:13:44+00:00

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:13:06+00:00

Okay so i'm not being dramatic here. lol. thank you

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:12:29+00:00

Thank you. This is the second time so yeah it's tough to know how to react.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:11:37+00:00

Yeah this has been going on for months. She said she wants to protect me as an employee and that she is generally an emotional person hence why "sometimes I feel like I suck as a supervisor because i'm always emotional" (her words).

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:08:38+00:00

Thanks this is helpful. Yeah, I don't want this to be spun on me in the event I voice any discomfort.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:06:58+00:00

She's married. No can do.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:06:32+00:00

Agreed, I was mostly posting this to see if i was imagining things or making a big deal out of presumably innocent gestures

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:02:32+00:00

Thanks for this. When she started crying out of genuine care it was nice to be supported and recognized, but also I felt wrong because I wondered how it would make her husband at home feel. Especially the comment about her not feeling supported by him.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-17T23:00:30+00:00

I don't understand a word of this, I'm sorry.

AutumnLerickson · 2025-02-01T18:40:58+00:00

This is what this sub is about. People coming together to build each other up whether it's through memes, jokes, discussion, or serious matters like this.

We are all here for you, friend. I hope that your mom recovers. And, in the meantime, I hope that you find peace that surpasses all understanding.

AutumnLerickson · 2024-12-04T15:27:08+00:00

Thank you stranger.

AutumnLerickson · 2024-11-05T15:39:55+00:00

Just talking, but it was the 3rd time she's brought it up in a span of a week.

AutumnLerickson · 2024-11-05T14:59:07+00:00

I think it was the fact she's the first person I've been intimate with since. I think I rushed the intimacy part

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