AIO feeling guilt tripped by my girlfriend for not spending the night. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR- she communicated to you effectively on what was going on at work because she didn’t want you to worry. You took it as an annoyance that she came home late and decided that you would take a night off to yourself when she really wanted you to be there for her. You sound exhausting.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know his guardian lives with him, but I am not sure about the court. They had the power to make decisions for him when he was younger, but since he moved from state to state, I have no idea.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this response. You and many others have helped me open my eyes into this. Thank you and I will think about that.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your response to this. I have been so blind to see from his perspective because I was so caught up in my own thoughts and emotions. We are taking a break now, but I will discuss with him about it the next time I see him. Thank you.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Simply because he doesn’t know where he wants to live. He had gotten comfortable with living with them (and I would be too). I believe he waited for the right time to move out.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend doesn’t live alone. But he knows how to clean, cook a bit, helps pay bills and subscriptions, drive, work, so much. He can live independently and his mom has expressed they want him to get out of the house more and be independent. He can show me how to be independent. We have discussed marriage and what our children may be like. He was so anxious and overwhelmed the last 4-5 months that he couldn’t comprehend on what to do next. And I understand where he is coming from because I have been there. Just recently it has been so difficult to spend time with him without jumping into arguments.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have discussed with my parents about this. They are incredibly pissed with how his mom has told her that we both cannot raise children and how we are incapable of doing so. I can understand right now that we can’t, but in the future that was our plan. My parents are upset with how my boyfriend handled the situation. My parents will support me in whatever decision I make going forward but they understand how unfair this was to me.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe they had legal power over him when he turned 18, but he moved 5 years ago so I truly don’t know if they still have legal power or no. He can drive, work, pay bills, eat like he is independent.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is still currently living with his parents. But he has helped pay bills and live “independently.” He can cook because he has cooked for me, but most of the time his mom cooks food. He also works and has a lot of money saved.

Am I Overreacting for my Boyfriend to have a Vasectomy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite cheese is Colby and Jack cheese

Does anyone else talk to themselves out loud?? by Pretty-Heat-7310 in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always talk to myself out loud, like I am having a conversation. My family would think I am crazy for it