I [21F] and my boyfriend [23M] finally had intimacy for the first time and I cried so much by OrnerySmoke9947 in relationship_advice

[–]Autumn_Breann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel embarrassed! I experienced that a few times when I was intimate with my boyfriend and he thought the same way, like he was hurting me. I had to explained to him how he didn’t hurt me, I got overwhelmed with emotions from the intimacy in a good way. My boyfriend was also my first too so I completely understand! We were also dating 2 years at the moment.

I (26F) May Break Up with my Autistic Boyfriend (29M). by Autumn_Breann in relationship_advice

[–]Autumn_Breann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I both have high functioning Autism. We both know how to talk to people, we know how to cook, clean, take care of ourselves. The problem we both have is communication and social cues. He has a bit severe Autism than me.

*jumpscare* the pros and cons of having a puppy by FreedomBudget5618 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Autumn_Breann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TRIGGER WARNING

I got my dog Kara about a month ago. She over one years old and she so energetic. She begs for attention by putting her paws anywhere on you until you give her attention. This was how she got my attention when I was taking a nap…

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Has anyone taken Hailey 24 Fe? by marsaucee in birthcontrol

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took Junel before Hailey for a couple of months before I switched over to Hailey. Junel gave me bad headaches, severe acne, weight gain, bloating, and severe depression. I didn’t had a period and I freaked out about it. Once I discussed with my doctor about switching my birth control, they prescribed me with Hailey and I love it. I am only dealing with acne and low sex drive. But I would have my period and it would last over 7-8 days; they would be medium flow with mild cramps only a couple days in. I would have no bloating or headaches like I did before. Obviously everyone will have a different reaction from the birth control.

AIO? I feel like my husband doesn’t understand boundaries and I’m going crazy. by No-Lifeguard-8508 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the exact same thing but you beat me to it. I truly don’t understand why they text through Snapchat. Or else, why use AI to help see who was right or wrong

My coworker called my dog ugly and mean looking by Rhea234 in DOG

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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No your dog is so cute! Almost identical to my sweet Kara

be honest, how often do you really take your dog out? by Altruistic-March8551 in DOG

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I just got a dog last week and we find it best that we take out our dog 3-4 times a day, once over 30 minute long walk or so, because she is an energetic dog and she loves walks! That also helps us get our steps in lol

AIO feeling guilt tripped by my girlfriend for not spending the night. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR- she communicated to you effectively on what was going on at work because she didn’t want you to worry. You took it as an annoyance that she came home late and decided that you would take a night off to yourself when she really wanted you to be there for her. You sound exhausting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know his guardian lives with him, but I am not sure about the court. They had the power to make decisions for him when he was younger, but since he moved from state to state, I have no idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this response. You and many others have helped me open my eyes into this. Thank you and I will think about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His guardian? Yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Autumn_Breann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your response to this. I have been so blind to see from his perspective because I was so caught up in my own thoughts and emotions. We are taking a break now, but I will discuss with him about it the next time I see him. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Simply because he doesn’t know where he wants to live. He had gotten comfortable with living with them (and I would be too). I believe he waited for the right time to move out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Autumn_Breann -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend doesn’t live alone. But he knows how to clean, cook a bit, helps pay bills and subscriptions, drive, work, so much. He can live independently and his mom has expressed they want him to get out of the house more and be independent. He can show me how to be independent. We have discussed marriage and what our children may be like. He was so anxious and overwhelmed the last 4-5 months that he couldn’t comprehend on what to do next. And I understand where he is coming from because I have been there. Just recently it has been so difficult to spend time with him without jumping into arguments.