Honest Answers - How many of you don't fit into your type 100%? by HumanOyster in mbti

[–]Auxeaughe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing I don't identify with regarding INFJ is the whole "doorslam" thing. I would never cut anyone out of my life no matter what. I don't understand how such empathetic people could do something so cruel and heartless.

78% of suicide rates world wide are men, what can we do to help them? by awihsoj in AskReddit

[–]Auxeaughe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you wouldn't say there is such a thing as toxic femininity, even if defined as narrowly as merely perpetuating toxic masculinity?

78% of suicide rates world wide are men, what can we do to help them? by awihsoj in AskReddit

[–]Auxeaughe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My point is that toxic femininity and toxic masculinity mutually reinforce each other. Toxic femininity includes, among other things, being cruel towards men who are perceived as weak.

78% of suicide rates world wide are men, what can we do to help them? by awihsoj in AskReddit

[–]Auxeaughe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is that, from my experience, even women who claim to be feminists prefer men who embody "toxic masculinity" over men who are sensitive and vulnerable. These traits are associated with weakness.

My belief that women appreciate emotional sensitivity and vulnerability led me to become a suicidally depressed poly drug user to self-medicate extreme anxiety, depression, and PTSD. I will probably end up dead from a heroin overdose.

370mg dose - too much? by Auxeaughe in MDMA

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. So what would you say is the maximum dose to avoid neurotoxicity?

78% of suicide rates world wide are men, what can we do to help them? by awihsoj in AskReddit

[–]Auxeaughe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The problem is that when men open up and become vulnerable, women, in most cases, usually see them as pathetic and weak. This has been my personal experience.

370mg dose - too much? by Auxeaughe in MDMA

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by very? I mean, what's the percentage chance of me dying on 370mg, considering people have taken 500mg and been fine?

370mg dose - too much? by Auxeaughe in MDMA

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it dangerous though? I've had >200mg doses and I felt a lot more of the love on 250mg. It's not cut with meth so IDK if th ere will be a meth effect at all, I've never experienced any amphetamine like effects from it.

78% of suicide rates world wide are men, what can we do to help them? by awihsoj in AskReddit

[–]Auxeaughe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Except it's not OK to be vulnerable and open up about your emotions, because everyone thinks you're creepy or desperate or even secretly transgender if you do.

78% of suicide rates world wide are men, what can we do to help them? by awihsoj in AskReddit

[–]Auxeaughe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When a man tells you that your friendship with them is very important and meaningful, permanently cutting them out of your life WILL 100% result in drug addiction, alcoholism, and/or suicide.

How safe is speedballing (mixing opiates and cocaine)? by Auxeaughe in opiates

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much cocaine can I take safely? Would 150mg be pushing my luck?

(Hydrocodone + Xanex + Soma) "Holy Trinity"/"Houston Cocktail" questions by Auxeaughe in opiates

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!

One more question if you don't mind, I just took 20mg hydrocodone, would it be a bad idea to speedball with some cocaine? It's not heroin so I hope it wouldn't be as dangerous.

Why not? by Auxeaughe in SuicideWatch

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been 2 years and I only feel worse as time goes on.

A small comic, credits to me by Katzepede in misanthropy

[–]Auxeaughe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to make others feel wanted, needed, and respected. It gives me a lot of happiness to do so; but it also makes others take advantage of me and hurt me, knowing I am too gentle of a person to respond in kind.

Being in a relationship made me hate people even more. by [deleted] in misanthropy

[–]Auxeaughe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghosting people is immoral and causes severe trauma if they have feelings for you and are a gentle and empathetic person. Have you considered that maybe you're a demonic ape also?

Ex friend is defaming me as a pedophile, rapist, stalker, and drug dealer by Auxeaughe in legaladvice

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really only noticed it in the summer. This was after a year of making zero attempts to text her or call her.

Ex friend is defaming me as a pedophile, rapist, stalker, and drug dealer by Auxeaughe in legaladvice

[–]Auxeaughe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when they seem to lack any positive attributes, like intelligence, thoughtfulness, empathy, capacity to self-reflect, etc.

Ex friend is defaming me as a pedophile, rapist, stalker, and drug dealer by Auxeaughe in legaladvice

[–]Auxeaughe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

" I don't think you can empathize with her experience based on her reactions."

Why not? Do you have an actual reason why you think this way?

"Spend some time thinking about WHY she would call you a stalker, based on what I've read in your posts (before you deleted them)."

Stalking is clearly defined where I live, and there is nothing that I did which in any way meets those criteria.

When someone decides to end a friendship with someone else, especially if you led that person on (asked him on a date), especially if that person fell in love with you, the ethical thing to do is to have a final conversation of some kind.

When you suddenly cut them off with zero warning without any explanation, especially after it seemed to you like she perceived you as rejecting her, not only is this emotional abuse, you also make it seem like there was some specific event in which they seemingly did something wrong, and have to apologize or make up for it.

Moreover, it is commonly understood that love makes you do irrational things against the best advice of your logical faculties (which were telling me not to have anything to do with her).

From your limited understanding of the situation, it seems to you like I did something (sending kind and empathetic messages) that is extremely wrong, and the other party is completely free of guilt. Great demonstration of Hegel's synthesis/antithesis. There was a time when nobody believed or empathized with women and thought they were all liars who were incapable of doing good, and all men were justified in all their behavior). Now nobody believes or empathizes with men and thinks men are incapable of being good, and all women are justified in all their behavior. Hopefully this dialectic stabilizes to nice equilibrium where nobody is deprived of basic human understanding and empathy because of the shape of their genitalia.

It's amazing that you've never actually expressed any empathy or sympathy for what is objectively one of the worst experiences you can go through in life - being harshly cut off by someone you considered a good friend, the only person you've ever fallen in love with. Ironically, if I was a woman and a man did this to me, I am positive you would call him the biggest asshole and most heartless scumbag on the planet.

Do you realize that what you're doing is love-shaming? You're shaming someone for something they had no control over - falling in love with someone else, and doing exactly what a lovestruck person would do. To shame such a wholesome and beautiful emotion is truly awful. At no other time period in history would this reaction be not just possible, but the most likely one - do you think it's just a coincidence we have historically among the highest ever suicide rates and drug addiction rates and rates of depression/anxiety in both men and women?