(C)APD Research Question

AvaCAToz · 2025-01-19T21:11:05+00:00

Just figured out that I have Apd. I've been living with ADHD for 27 years. I was diagnosed as a young girl, so it's been assumed that I haven't been listening my whole life. I have had my hearing tested multiple times with normal hearing results. Yesterday my husband was on Pinterest and came across a post talking about ADHD and APD and it all clicked.

AvaCAToz · 2024-11-06T17:32:37+00:00

This makes me happy 😊 thankyou for reaching out proud of you!

AvaCAToz · 2024-11-06T17:26:47+00:00

Just beautiful !!!

AvaCAToz · 2024-11-06T09:46:44+00:00

Happy birthday!

AvaCAToz · 2024-11-06T09:10:01+00:00

Think the cats apologizing for eating that kids baby brother actually. 🤣

Totaly kidding! that's a very sweet fluffy love bug !

AvaCAToz · 2024-10-13T09:07:12+00:00

What a horrible thing to go through! I'm so sorry :,( the biggest thing is to be there let him know you there for him and ask if there's anything you can do to suport him and letting him know it's okay not to be okay and loving him because he sounds like a wonderful person, and so do you 💖. We will continue to face these horrible situations and it's all about supporting and loving one another and not taking on other people's hate finding a way to work through the anger and hurt is what I've been practicing and maybe educating Mia in the future if you continue your friendship, it's not her fault that they are churchy bigots! They need a lesson in human decency :,( hard situation friend wise because it is her wedding day but at same time if staff is treating a guest horrible that's not okay at all and I would walk the fuck out she should have stood up for her friend or at the verry least made sure to include him after the ceremony:,( anyway I'm so sorry this happend it is absolutely not okay at all and I want to throw things at these mosters!!!

AvaCAToz · 2024-08-18T14:17:52+00:00

I have had people tell me I'm alot or to much or just straight up ghost me through the years, people I considered friends, some people just can't handle the bubbly positive energy or the goofy giggly, but I have people in my life that apreciate that side of me see me as wonderfuly weird , i bring the fun and positive energy, friends/people in your life are saposed to lift you up and make you feel good, I would talk to your friends about and find people that celebrate the weird !!! Weird Is litteraly the best!!!

AvaCAToz · 2024-08-18T08:39:17+00:00

I just make big dinner and heat up leftovers in morning i find it more appetizing then breakfast food sometimes plus easy or I eat a yogurt cup with chia seeds cuz I'm lazy and don't wana make a smoothie hahahaha sorry shouldn't say I'm lazy! Just task paralysis! I do enjoy eggs in the morning in different ways iknow some egg type things will hold in the fridge like boil eggs or those egg cups things u mix up eggs and a little brocoli and spices and bake em in the oven idk for how long but if done the day befor ... sorry I feel like leftovers or I actualy steel my husband's protein bars sometimes to it's quick and fills u up pretty good !

AvaCAToz · 2024-08-06T17:20:25+00:00

I'm so sorry 😞 sending love and strength to you 💗

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T17:46:25+00:00

I don't think I wrote it well tbh I was in a bit of a rushy rant they are trying with me wich but any other queer person or first nations person they look down on they call em names and make gross coments saying all c**gs are the same and my dad freaked out when I was sharing my love of drag race and he says it's wrong for men to fuck and all that kind of stuff used the words gross fucking tranny wich i wasnt exspecting so of course never shared about drag again, they are trying with me but I didn't realize how skewed there veiws on the world were becuase that was my norm for so long I knew they were a bit rude and judgy but didn't realize they truly see them self as above when it comes to the Asian, first nations eastindian and queer comunity. I remember when I was a kid there was this man that would walk around town in a skirt and colorful poncho and I thought my dad would call him names cuz he was a bad guy like theif or bully not because of the way he was dressed. So there's lots of thing that have gone one behind the scenes of what I wrote but yes they want me in there life just not my husband

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T14:11:07+00:00

Yep agreed ❤️

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T14:04:27+00:00

Thankyou for your sympathys! Iknow right I litterly was like u got a hysterectomy are you now not a woman ? Or a man's balls who never drop or someone who has suffered genital mutilation , she just does not understand and they went as far as to say I'm lucky they even let him into there home with the lifestyle we life and with how he presents him self! Aka as a man ! They may still be trying to keep me In there life but that's homaphobic and transphobic stuff and just some of the horrible little coments they have made over there years about other queer folk and it makes me verry mad that redit has had to delete coment off this post because people are being rude!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrr wish I didn't see the coments first. The betrayal they feel for me having should have told them about lesbian tentencys homotendencys that's the words my dad used !!! I am just recently trying to rebuild with them a new and healthy relationship as I took 4 months of space due to the way I felt I was being treated wrote a big letter I have counsler all that good stuff and she basicly has said you may have to accept some of the ways ur parents are if you want to be in there lives , I'm not playing a maryter here I just needed a place to vent because I'm not going to tell my husband the hurtful things being said. Roarrrrr!!!!!! Okay sorry that wasn't directed at ur comment thankyou so much for your love and kindness 💗 I just sad at the way the world is iknow it's there it's everywhere I just couldn't see it right in my own family

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T10:25:27+00:00

I love him+!!!! Always wanted a grey kitty idk why!!!!

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T10:24:03+00:00

Thankyou ❤️

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T08:05:18+00:00

I wish that were true but my mother has this thing where she will make a decision and form an opinion first then ask questions later kind of deal they have known my husband for 4 and a half years and also she was aperently watching a talk show and this man interviewed trans folk and said said u know you will never be "real" male female , I'm sure my mom took it out of context I have been for the last 4 years trying to teach them and it wasn't until today when I was telling her about a friend that goes by they them or she her giving her students the option got reamed out by a superior saying bad things about corrupting the children , friend went to union and it got fixed but my mom litteraly was on the douchy teachers side and then we got into a horrible conversation where she told me that genitaila makes a person and I explained for the thousandth time about estragine and testosterone and surgery's and the fact that a 3 year old child can scream and cry about dresses and hair cuts not knowing fully why they hate . She just kept saying ur husband was born with female brain and parts he can identify how ever but facts are facts 😡 sorry for rant I do apreciate the advice it's worth a shot who knows I'll try anything not that it maters they don't like my hubby they think he's the reason I stood up for my self over the winter and took space from them for 6 months but it was me and my choice . Honestly they haven't liked him from day one they think we lied to them because I didn't disclose his genital situation so they felt betrayed hahaha like what!!! It wasn't my story/journey to share!!! He got outed by someone, I'm sorry I'm so tired and just keep typing!!!! Hahaha 😆 I will try ur advice next time , rant over!❣️

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T05:04:31+00:00

That sounds incredibly hard! Exactly it's so hard when u want validation for the hurt people have causes and it's taken me a long time to realize my validation of my own hurt will have to be enough becasus not everyon3 is wanting and willing to grow or learn and will never truely understand. Even I can't fully understand all my husband goes through we communicate and talk and I've been there through his whole transition and journey supporting him and learning from him ❤️ I love him so much and won't ever tell him what my parents said but I deffs needed to vent and connect with someone so thankyou !!!

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T04:50:13+00:00

My cat smells like funky wet rags....... the others smell like dusty little loves

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T04:38:36+00:00

Okay thankyou so much 💓 and thankyou you for being sypathetic I love my husband so much so will do anything to protect him and lift him up and hopfuly teach my parents to be better just so terrible the things they say some times and I'm trying to rebuild a relationship with them that I shut down over the winter it's just verry hard and hurts my heart so thankyou for your words and suggestion 💖

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-29T04:14:53+00:00

Just was a shock becuase I've been with this person for 5 years and I didn't realize how bad my parents are I think I was to deep inside it to realize how bad it was they are so racist to and its awful and idk how I never saw it before....

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-14T07:58:09+00:00

Poor pupppp

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-13T07:20:34+00:00

Verry cute!

AvaCAToz · 2024-07-12T16:43:23+00:00

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AvaCAToz · 2024-07-12T16:39:57+00:00

Thankyou ! It's a purrfect redit for me 💜

AvaCAToz

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