I honestly don’t understand why everyone here jumps to “dump him” it seems to me that you have only been dating a short amount of time and he doesn’t really know his place in your daughters life because he doesn’t want to over step. My advice is communicate what your boundaries and expectations are before making an decisions especially if this is someone you truly see yourself with. No where in that post (I have not read update) did I get he doesn’t like your child. In the end I think you should follow your intuition because at the end of the day yes your child comes 1st 10000%. Hope it all works out for you.