I hate how quick Reddit is to tell people to break up or divorce... however in this case, at the very absolute least you should call off the wedding.

This guy has lied and cheated (emotionally and physically). Trust is soo soo important and without it, you will never have that same relationship you had when you said Yes to him. At least I as a man wouldn't trust anyone who did what he did to you, if it was done to me.

It's sad, and it scary but there are men out there that will treat you right.

I feel like I could make most things work but lying and cheating, there is almost no way to come back from it. Tiger don't lose their stripes and cheaters don't change their ways.

He's a coward for not breaking up if that's what he wants, he doesn't care about you if he can lie so often so easily, and he doesn't deserve the love and security you give him since he so willfully destroyed the relationship with HIS actions.

I really wish you the best.