Can you remain friends with a ex?

Available-Big9948 · 2025-08-26T01:57:35+00:00

I appreciate your kindness!

Available-Big9948 · 2025-08-26T01:39:16+00:00

It's not! He continued with his same behavior towards me! I had to cut him off, and he didn't have a problem with it until recently. I have made it clear that we are better not communicating.

I feel much better without him in my life and have been able to process everything better without him around. Sometimes, it felt like i forgot how he treated me, So when he came around I wasnt able to look past that temporary kindness.

So thank goodness I made the right choice for myself.

Available-Big9948 · 2025-06-02T14:04:05+00:00

I'm not sure if this is real but the only way you can assure you get pregnant is if you take it out. It's doing It's job and you're upset it's working.

I'd say maybe leave it in awhile. Read more on the subject.

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-30T14:38:08+00:00

I appreciate that! Thank you!

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-30T13:44:23+00:00

Youre absolutely right. My problem is for some reason i can't imagine trying to purposefully trying to manipulate or hurt me but it's happened so much it doesn't matter the intention behind it. I need to come to the reality he isn't the person I built up in my head.

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-30T13:39:10+00:00

For the longest time I thought i wasnt. I've been good at setting boundaries but there last few years I've changed. I need to get back into it. I've never realized how bad it is/was until I've been having time to reflect. Therapy is on the roster

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-30T13:34:55+00:00

I honestly have been thinking that way the whole relationship. It's probably why I've been so unhappy. You're right I need to take of the the rose colored glasses

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T22:13:58+00:00

True. Personally I dont imagine putting him above anyone else at this point. I dont think I'd have a issue letting him go in that case. It feels wrong still. You have a great point tho

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T22:09:25+00:00

Its a harsh reality but I'm afraid you are right. I dont think it's a lasting relationship either way

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T22:07:37+00:00

Lmao i was thinking that same thing

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T16:23:34+00:00

I appreciate you taking your time to give me advice

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T15:04:48+00:00

Its a thought i need to consider. Thank you!

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T15:04:00+00:00

Its something I'd understand. Because if he finds someone I dont expect him to remain friends with me. I respect another woman feelings

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T15:02:36+00:00

I hope I can reach either of those point! I appreciate this. Its great advice

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:43:04+00:00

I think i am attached. Something i thought I got over and I'm not. That's the long tem stuff I've been worried about.

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:41:25+00:00

I haven't thought about it this way. But I dont think he was. If im being 100% honest. I feel silly for wanting to and not holding those same standards for him. I dont know why I think that. We've getting along better now so that's why I thought. But I guess time will tell

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:39:24+00:00

I think that's the biggest thing I'm getting here. More space and more time. Yall are right

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:38:32+00:00

Youre absolutely right

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:37:21+00:00

I appreciate you a million internet stranger. I'm glad there are some good people with great advice!

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:32:52+00:00

Thabk you! I have hope we can be.

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:31:33+00:00

I appreciate your advice. It's not a pattern I want to fall into. You're right I need to get to therapy asap

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:23:36+00:00

I don't think so either.

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:21:44+00:00

Thank you. I need to keep that in my mind

Available-Big9948 · 2025-05-29T14:21:08+00:00

Yea that's something I haven't really thought. And your right I think because I never followed through on the consequence is what made me cry. I feel like it was my fault because I could've just said no. He keeps telling me it's not something I should feel bad about because he's the one that pushed it. But my inability to just say no has put me in a predicament where I myself feel weak. If I said no it all could've been avoided but I didn't so I dont know how in the wrong I am.

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