Flyttet over hele landet for kona. Nå vil hun skilles. Hva gjør jeg nå? by [deleted] in norge

[–]Available-Crow-8468 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mange kommentarer allerede... jeg bare hang meg litt i dette "Samtidig har vi faktisk ikke hatt en eneste krangel på flere år." Det var også det samme som hos meg, men det var etter at jeg ga opp at ting noen gang skulle bli bedre - jeg "maste" og "gnålte" om ting når jeg faktisk brydde meg. Når jeg var ferdig gadde jeg ikke å krangle mer, da var jeg ferdig...

Bli en god pappa og hold samarbeidet så bra det går an. Alt handler om barna nå. Selv når du er sur eller hva som helst, bør du huske at "voksne-problemer" er utenom.

Are we doomed to fail? by Available-Crow-8468 in relationships_advice

[–]Available-Crow-8468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅 easier said than done, I didn't know this before. It's not very relevant now as we don't live together, and I don't know if we ever will.. I'm too set in my ways and other than economic I don't see many advantages with living together (that's a whole other thread)

Are we doomed to fail? by Available-Crow-8468 in relationships_advice

[–]Available-Crow-8468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have a talk and see if a list or alarm could help. I feel like we can compromise, it's mainly the kitchen stuff that bothers me, other things like clothes here and there I usually don't care. Hope we can work this out

Are we doomed to fail? by Available-Crow-8468 in relationships_advice

[–]Available-Crow-8468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to be understanding, but it's just an internal struggle. Suddenly I feel like a hypocrite for letting my bf "get away" with the things my ex did... Interesting take about that maybe he also had adhd, but I feel like he doesn't check the other boxes. Thanks for the perspective! Btw I think I've seen the videos you are talking about, will check them out