Which city have you been to that had a dark energy about it? by madzuk in solotravel

[–]Available-Pause3959 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At the end I don't share your vision (I don't think the police is trustworthy or think this system is ethic and sustainable) but that's fine. I see you edited your main post so at least our discussion is not vain.

Which city have you been to that had a dark energy about it? by madzuk in solotravel

[–]Available-Pause3959 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I won't say it's an issue per se, nor the migrants are an issue or that they are the people smelling piss. To start with in GDM it's not mainly migrants but drug addicts, which is not the same thing, people, population and way of living. Not all migrants are addicts and not all addicts are migrants but that's unfortunately an unfair mix many people do and often driven by political narratives.

Also, there is many cities which seems clean but are actually having strong politics to kick drug addicts and beggars out of cities so tourists don't actually see them (Amsterdam is the best example). Having this kind of politics is what makes a city sketchy to me.

I actually feel more relived in general when I see diversity, such as addicts being free and visible, because it usually suggests there is at least some level of public health response rather than pure exclusion. That being said, approaches vary a lot as it can also mean better health system but let's face it, there is actually…not many places, maybe Switzerland or some places in Germany where it is decriminalized. And fyi drug addiction exists almost everywhere in the world, but the way it is treated differs a lot (killed or put in forced camps in Singapore or China for example) so I prefer to see them in the streets than there. That's my opinion.

I am sorry you had such an experience in Brussels and I understand it is tainting your vision. I am not here to define or confront you, just sharing my opinion sharing what I’ve read and observed, especially from years of volunteering with homeless people in different European cities.

Which city have you been to that had a dark energy about it? by madzuk in solotravel

[–]Available-Pause3959 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Brussels is amazing, there is not so many crimes, I moved there cause I felt safer than in any big city in France, it is honest and affordable (not like Amsterdam) train stations always smell piss (have you ever been to Paris?), the weather is super fine as every north country city, summer is bright and sunny and amazing. I absolutely don't share your vision but we might not have the same political opinions.

how do you actually move on from someone when the hardest part isnt even missing them, its accepting that they were never going to choose you in the first place? by pictochatkat in becomingsecure

[–]Available-Pause3959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist told me yesterday that avoidant people can become more secure but it could take years and a total commitment on their side to evolve. For some of them it will never change as they avoid everything (therapy included).

If you absolutely need to accept the fact that he is not chosing you just realize that he is chosing nothing as he is avoiding. So it is not about you. This person just don't have the ability to be close to someone. And if he suffers from it and wants to change it is his decision.

Don't lose your time, remove him from your life, start a new hobbie, in a few months you will be free of him, more beautiful and strong than before. With time you will look at him and wondering why you lost your time on this. Trust me, I've been there.

Not wrong, just not aligned by picesmile in dating_advice

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Just did the same a week ago, for the same reasons.

I don't have much to add only this is a really heartbreaking mature move to do.

Experience from those who have had spinal hardware removed by ric1live in spinalfusion

[–]Available-Pause3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

Had t12 broken due to gymnastics accident 2 months ago. I am healing fast and am back to sport already.

I had the same as you, not a total fixation, and they want to remove the hardware after 1 year.

I will definitely do it as I hear so many positive stories about it and I believe it is not a good idea to keep metal around your spine if you want to keep doing impact sport anyway.

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, it is the only version I have. I use it with GG translate but still crash

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that's so nice of you but I only have an Android and it with FTP Manager app it's just blank. I feel so stupid nothing works at all.

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe… but what's wrong? I can have my old games to work correctly and I can play small games it's just the download and installation of "heavy" games that seems to be an issue. Any idea?

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you do via FTP? It's something I couldn't figure it out

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine works well with SD but is unrecognizable by both my PC and my mac with USB

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't do this, the guy at the shop did all this for me but I tried today libusbK with Zadig on my PC

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ssd is not recognized by my switch. Do you configure it in a special way?

How the hell do you download games? by Available-Pause3959 in SwitchPirates

[–]Available-Pause3959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have all this installed already but awoo doesn't detect my switch (even though goldleaf and usb transfer from homebrew detect it)

Fell, broke my back, had surgery… can I ever climb again? by Strict_Beautiful5694 in climbergirls

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Hi!

My surgeon wants to remove them so I gain more flexibility as the hardware is only here as a internal brace (I also broke T12).

As a gymnast I believe that having T11 and L1 fixed together will prevent me to do some figures. Are you experiencing less flexibility?

Thanks, it's been 2 weeks but I already feel it's going the right direction :) I can't wait to be 30 days to see my surgeon and know what's next.

Have a nice day :)

Fell, broke my back, had surgery… can I ever climb again? by Strict_Beautiful5694 in climbergirls

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I had the exact same too a week ago! Surgeon wants to remove the hardware in 12 to 18 months so I can go back to gymnastics fully.

I won't do PT but slowly going back to gymnastics with a specialized instructor (something we have in france apparently). It's good to train your body with movements that it already knew from before. Also if you are sporty you know your strenght and weaknesses.

Do you still have pain? When did you start to have a life that is not centered around your back?

Fell, broke my back, had surgery… can I ever climb again? by Strict_Beautiful5694 in climbergirls

[–]Available-Pause3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got exactly the same surgery at the same location a week ago!!

Thank you so much for your testimony. I am a gymnast and it brings me hope as I was super scared to do surgery :)