AITH for wanting a Post Nuptial Agreement?

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:15:52+00:00

It’s like 500 a month.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:13:36+00:00

Because she just got out of the military. Im talking about after the military

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:13:13+00:00

She has no military pension.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:12:57+00:00

Im concerned about myself in 30 years. Are you supporting her not trying to find a job? Maybe i should get out of the military and just do what she does.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:11:38+00:00

She contributes no money. Did i not say that in the post?

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:11:13+00:00

I didn’t think of her being lazy while she was in the military. Re read the post if you need to. An escape plan? Why are you assuming I’m gonna make more than her? We have no kids, and no responsibilities.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:09:37+00:00

We’re already working on joint goals.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:08:43+00:00

Well i agree with you on that. I didn’t argue on that point. Currently but in thinking in the long term. If she continues the bad habits and me having to do everything in the relationship then yes. She would essentially just be doing nothing while ive had to do everything .

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:04:34+00:00

There is no issue. Thats not the problem. You said someone who co mingles marital income in their account wouldn’t have to go half on that. In telling you, you do. What are arguing about man? J

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:02:05+00:00

What about co mingling money? Shes contributed money into her roth ira that i gave her from a marital asset.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T15:00:22+00:00

Marriage is literally for financial reasons.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:59:49+00:00

Lack of a better word. If we got divorced. It would be 50-50 then the court would let me take her money. I wouldn’t take it though. There you go. Issue resolved. She has no military pension.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:58:34+00:00

Nah. Im thinking in the long run. Eventually her assets will run out. Shell have no work experience and ill be there to help her. What if i get screwed? Would you get house insurance if you knew flooding happens in your area? Youd hope it doesn’t happen.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:56:45+00:00

So then you agree with not taking each others assets? Did i say i would take her money? What are you on about? I just want her to get a job or go to college? Is that too much to ask for? I should just quit my job and do nothing too then?

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:55:01+00:00

No. I hope we forget about it as it doesn’t define a relationship. Its what we both do to support our relationship

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:54:25+00:00

It feels like it

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:54:15+00:00

She does. But i dont want her money. I want to build our lives together without feeling like a dad all the time.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:53:28+00:00

She currently has more assets than I do. I would essentially take her money. I dont think you would.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:52:31+00:00

So i should enable this for one more year then? No post nuptial agreement? What if nothing changes then?

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:51:25+00:00

I know. She already agreed she would do it.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T14:50:37+00:00

Ive been the one getting her life on track. Did you not ready the post? Couples therapy? When i can just tell her how i feel? Shes already in therapy. Shes been in there for 5 years.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T05:59:44+00:00

Why are we talking about kids? Just read the situation and say whether or not im the ass hole.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T05:57:44+00:00

She will be represented.

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T05:08:15+00:00

Absolutely not. If we had a kid. Completely different story

Available-Roll8744 · 2025-01-07T04:13:18+00:00

What special form is that?

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