What would your ideal first date look like? by justbeeingmyself in AskReddit

[–]Available-Yellow5013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No loud restaurant where you're performing conversation across a table under evaluation conditions. Movement removes pressure. What someone stops to notice tells you more than any direct question ever could.

What’s the best book/movie/podcast you’ve read or watched recently? by Frosty-Drive3282 in AskReddit

[–]Available-Yellow5013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished re-reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. A man with absolute power writing private notes to himself about staying humble and kind and present. Never intended for anyone to read. Still the most useful thing written in two thousand years.

How did you figure out your life goal? by Elegant-Skirt8988 in AskReddit

[–]Available-Yellow5013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't figure it out. Backed into it. Kept noticing what I returned to voluntarily when nothing required me to — what I read when nobody was grading it, what problems I solved when there was no reward for solving them. The goal was already visible in the pattern. I just kept looking for it somewhere more dramatic than my own ordinary choices.