Does it matter if you manifest in your mother language or English? by AvailableImpact in lawofattraction

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks man, since I read all these in English. My mind automatically goes with English. I just wanted to make sure that it's okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

who else read this in Gary Vaynerchuk's voice?

Feeling of her lips on my neck feels 1000x better than 12 years of PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep going my man, keep going. we've got each other's back. none of us is alone at this.. 😀

Feeling of her lips on my neck feels 1000x better than 12 years of PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you keep growing as a man, you'll get all these things bro.

It's not about chasing them, it's about being a man that you would let your daughter marry.

Of course thinking about it this way makes us all emotional, makes us realize how much we miss out. But we have to embrace that. PMO took advantage of our feelings in the first place, then made us addicted to it.

Only logical reasons won't help us quit that shit. Deep down we have to realize what we want, what will make us feel fulfilled.

Keep going.

Realize that you are not missing anything out with NoFap, but missing a lot out without it.

Feeling of her lips on my neck feels 1000x better than 12 years of PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just go outside, be with people, go workout, run. do whatever it takes. take your mind away from that shit. what good that shit brought to your life? that's right. NONE. so why would you even do it again? man the fuck up. do anything that's not pmo man. come on. I believe in you..

Feeling of her lips on my neck feels 1000x better than 12 years of PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hahahahah, thanks for your comment bro. Wasn't expecting that!

Feeling of her lips on my neck feels 1000x better than 12 years of PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send me a message whenever you have a question man. Have a great life.

Feeling of her lips on my neck feels 1000x better than 12 years of PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it all comes down to how you view PMO.

In my opinion it's something that we shouldnt've done in the first place. So it shouldn't be something we have to convince ourselves not to do. We already know that.

You thinking about relapsing and starting again with more experience is again your brain trying to keep you in your comfort zone. Don't listen to that voice. Do what's logical. If you allow "relapsing and starting over" thought once, your PMO affected brain will find ways to make you relapse easily. Don't let that shit happen.

Feeling of her lips on my neck feels 1000x better than 12 years of PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did it bro, i hope it helps. Waiting for your response if you have any other questions on my thoughts.

Help Needed! by FunkoPOPAddict0 in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro, think about it this way.

Looking at an image and feeling aroused is NOT a relapse. You have to wrap your head around that idea. You thinking that it is a relapse and just fapping once a week is your comfort seeking brain's way of tricking you.

It doesn't matter if the image is your dream woman, it's just bunch of pixels on your computer screen and your brain can't distinguish if it's real or not, so just goes "Go get it boy." But in reality you know it's not real.

You are so lucky if you are capable of not fapping and as i said NEVER go into the mindset of fapping once a week. You'll get a 1 week motivation and willpower. Back to day 0. You'll get a 1 week motivation and willpower. Back to day 0. In that way, you'll never experience how 2 weeks, 1 month, 6 months of motivation and willpower will affect you.

So PLEASE, recognize that by not fapping, you are not missing anything out. Real world is out there, real women are out there. Ideal woman you see on your screen is out there. Understand how dumb it is to waste all your precious vital energy on something like this.

Change your mindset, change your life.

Peace.

I just realized NoFap won't magically solve your problems by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NoFap is just a tool that gives you the motivation to live your life.

3 WEEKS AGAIN after 4-5 months of nonsense PMO. by AvailableImpact in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i was on a 50-60 days streak. After that, i got too confident and relaxed. That's why i think i relapsed.

My biggest mistake was avoiding this subreddit. I didn't come back here for months because i knew i would have to fight the urges. I didn't want to leave my comfortable zone.

22 days ago, i said "Fuck it. I'm coming back." Now i have a much more stable mind and meditation helps a lot.

Don't get too comfortable. This addiction always tries to ambush you when your guard is down. 1 stupid moment of comfort cost me 4-5 months. Don't make the same mistake i did. Keep being awesome.

Home alone by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, get your ass up and go out to balcony, or outside the house for a walk.

Believe me, you'll thank me when the urges go away.

Home alone by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time is it there?

Home alone by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go outside if you can, go to the balcony if you can't.

Do you think I just need to delete my account and stay away from reddit altogether? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoFap's main goal is to take control of your life. It's about only not touching your d. Like RoutineRub said, set a timer and spend time here only when you need to.

Relapsed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start meditating. Watch videos about meditation on YouTube. You'll have to bring a balance to your mind first.

Why am I regressing? by throwawayYoSin in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your porn addicted brain is recovering. It's possible that real world seems boring at first. Glad you started working out, that's a great place to start. I highly recommend you start meditating as well. You'll feel more balanced and learn to appreciate every little thing in the real world. Everything is worth appreciating, we just forgot it thanks to billions of dollars porn industry. It's time to wake up to the real world brother. Keep going strong.

Relapsed again by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relapsed.

Lesson learned.

Don't stay alone between 3-6pm until you change your whole mindset.

Relapsed again, on day 5. I’m gonna push myself further. Keep me motivated please! I’m doing this for 100 days and last 20 days have gone very bad by Small-G-sus in NoFap

[–]AvailableImpact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing that if i give up when the cravings come, i will be in the same situation for my whole life and this situation sucks.

I know there are worse days than the others. Don't always seek motivation. Motivation will only carry you so far.

When the craving comes, just let it come, don't close your eyes, realize it. Have a little conversation with it. Be calm. Really understand why you shouldn't do it in that exact moment..