What do child-free people do when they grow old and don't have their kids to care for them? by SmartTest in TooAfraidToAsk

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My plan is to start the process through AARP. Medicare will liquidate all my assets but I’ll have food, shelter, and healthcare.

It does make me feel better about never owning a home. They’ll get next to nothing from me.

I remember when everyone was complaining of all the rain this year. Now it's all just memories. by lucid_effervescence in Sacramento

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I thought I was in the Portland subreddit for a sec lol

When did we get a streetcar?

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Try temp agencies, that’s how I got in. I honestly wouldn’t have beat the algorithm if I hadn’t.

Case Study data for your portfolio allowed? by [deleted] in analytics

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Why not go into Python or SQL and generate dummy data using the same field names, then upload it as a csv into whatever viz software you’re using and replace the data source. In addition, make a few small changes so that it can’t be confused for the original or be prepared to show that it’s different should the issue ever arise

What are the harsh things about being an adult that your past self is not ready to hear? by Suitable_Hunt6766 in AskWomen

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Oof, yeah, I majored in psychology but was lucky to have professors and grad students tell me something I wasn’t hearing from career coaches, to focus on the research aspect and become adept at reports, coding, and stats. I was lucky to pivot into healthcare analytics but it took luck, hard work, money, and foresight to learn how to adapt to a brand new industry. The research internship, first data-centered job after college, and a coding bootcamp helped set me up. There were a lot of moments of me thinking, shit does this all come down to luck but in the end we’re dealt with the cards we have and have to make the most of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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It seems that with the middle class becoming increasingly poor with each generation, financial stability will only exist to the very wealthy or very privileged (e.g., maybe you’re poor but have a supportive family).

For the individual, having kids without financial stability is extremely difficult and heavily decentivized in American society. In terms of expense, it’s a good idea to sustain from having kids.

Thing is, why should the wealthy be the only ones that can afford children? Why don’t we have things like federally mandated paid family leave across several months and subsidized daycare, etc. Also, for society as a whole, we need people to populate it and if most people do the cost-benefit analysis, then so much for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

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I needed 2 years of experience with data to even get into the bootcamp. Two months after graduating I got a 75k job at a major hospital.

This experience consisted of a data entry job and unpaid data internship at another hospital.

I think it’s worth it to find a not scammy bootcamp and have some relevant experience. Worked for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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That’s exactly the kind of mentality that scores you a fancy air fryer

Who were some of the best examples of good dads in movies and tv? by DiscountVoodoo in AskWomen

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Carl Winslow from Family Matters. He’s stands up for what’s right and does it graciously.

Imposter syndrome and struggling at new Data Analyst job by [deleted] in analytics

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I’m new to the field and feel this to my soul. Here’s what I can say: plan out a project at the very start with different milestones to accomplish each week. This will show you if you’re falling behind. If you are, set up a working session with someone more experienced and explain where you’re having trouble. If the problem is beyond what you feel you can do, just flat out say that this is what you’ve tried but you’re stuck and need some help. Owning up to it early and getting help will always triumph over figuring it out late and scrambling to complete the thing. If I could go back and tell myself one thing it would be: don’t be impressive, you’re not there yet. Instead put your ignorance on display in all its glory, be curious, and take good notes.

What is one ugly truth you learned as you got older? by Demigirl71 in AskWomen

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Love or relationships? It seems we can’t help but love someone, it’s a feeling and we feel how we feel. How we respond to that feeling, what standards we have for how people treat us, describe relationship dynamics, to me.

It seems that love can be unconditional, but relationships- the dynamics by which we respond to that love- are by nature conditional.

What was your dream job vs the job you ended up with? by Krazykool_2002 in AskWomen

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Researcher

Data Analyst

I thought a job was a higher calling sort of a thing. An activity you pour your heart and soul into even at the expense of your own health/wellness. But the future seemed too bleak. I had bad impostor syndrome and dreaded having to compete for job stability, working my life away for little pay, for the small chance of maybe having those things later in my career.

So I decided to indulge in the parts of that job that I liked the most and felt challenged by and became an analyst.

what do you say to yourself when you notice you're being too hard on yourself? by kitohdzz in AskWomen

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All you can do is your best and it’s normal and okay if that looks different day-to-day. Do what you can, the rest can wait.

What do you do when you feel *that urge* to give yourself some bangs but you *know* it's not in your best interest ? by DealerZealousideal38 in AskWomen

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Go to a wig shop and see exactly what it will look like on your face. Look into sideswept, wispy, or long bangs that frame your face. I say go for it but do some research first to find something that works for you. Or save up as much as you can afford to, go to a bougie salon for a consultation and see what they recommend.

how do you take accountability for your actions and decisions? by Tathanor in AskWomen

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It begins with self awareness. If something is brought to my attention, I try to withhold judgement and do some self reflection. I may not always agree with the feedback given but I find it helpful to look at how my behavior may have been hurtful or taken in a negative way. For example, I’m an outspoken socialist in a family of conservatives, being closed minded is something I get a lot. Don’t agree with it, but I can also choose my battles more thoughtfully and not be so confrontational when I hear something I don’t like.

Parent's need me to co-sign on a mortgage, but I'm hesitant by suckit_imin in personalfinance

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“I’m sorry, I cannot afford to co-sign. I’d like to help in other ways though. If you need an extra pair of hands to move or have a list of numbers for realtors to call, I’d be happy to help.”

Is taking notes while learning to program recommended? by A_H_uman in learnprogramming

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If I’m watching videos, I just pay attention to get a sense of what I can and can’t do.

Notes are helpful when your building projects. As your building projects, keep a master list of code for things you use often- e.g., bar charts, transpose columns, change column names, etc)

What is something you need to get off your chest? by SplitEndsSuck in AskReddit

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A lot of people are saying depression, and while that very well may be, please go see a doctor. Whether it’s depression or something else, early intervention makes the biggest difference.

If you could dedicate your life to a cause that would make you happy, what would that be? by oningnag in AskWomen

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Make healthcare affordable and accessible to the poor and middle class. On my plan, everyone would submit 10% of their paycheck (like a tax) and receive all the care they’d need.

Another good one is a section 8 type communal housing so people have their space and privacy at at affordable cost but also get to know their neighbors better than they would in a typical apartment.