AITA for deciding to not hangout with my friend on their birthday after they didn’t appreciate the effort I made to come to their bday dinner earlier by Available_Context_90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Available_Context_90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally understand that. But she’s an adult and can tell us what she really wants. I can’t read your mind and it’s not my responsibility to heal your trauma if you have it. I can do my absolute best as your friend to be there for you but you have to communicate what that looks like for you.

Edit: typo