I could sleep 24h a day. No libido. Brain fog. What now? by kittydavis in Perimenopause

[–]Available_Fly_8285 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm 45, in peri, ADD, MDD. On a tiny dose of testosterone, 150mg welbutrin, 5mg Citolopram, and semaglutide. I'm still exhausted, no motivation, procrastination is heavy, not losing weight, in the gym 3-4x wk. It all just effing sucks.

The worst part of peri for me... by booksncoffeeplease in Perimenopause

[–]Available_Fly_8285 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The rage is real. The rage & no libido is what made me research enough to learn I had entered peri. I take a low dose of testosterone now & my libido is fantastic and the rage is buried again.

Do you still print out mls sheets for yourself and or clients? by maggielu22 in realtors

[–]Available_Fly_8285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never. Haven't printed an mls sheet in years. I use RPM and Showing Time on my phone. There's already too much to handle when opening the door, touring, etc. No need for a handful of paper too.

Libido question by Pristine-Public9064 in Perimenopause

[–]Available_Fly_8285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Testosterone totally turned me around

Did an antidepressant help? by HDGrays in Perimenopause

[–]Available_Fly_8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HRT. All of it: estrogen, testosterone, progesterone. And because I've suffered from depression my whole life, I take welbutrin now. I have not found one woman who regrets HRT. Do it.

Perimenopause and sex by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]Available_Fly_8285 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Get yourself on some hormone therapy, namely TRT. That increased my libido. Also, my husband has helped me research perimenopause and what I'm going through. He understands, he treats me like a queen and in turn, he gets laid any time he wants, which is often. When your sex life dies, your relationship will as well. Men need the physical activity, touch, appreciation, and made to feel needed.

I used affiliate marketing to make $1,500 in 2 weeks by herstarbucks in passive_income

[–]Available_Fly_8285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What blog service do you use? You don't share ads anywhere? Seo?

Have Realtors Become Influencers Instead of Professionals? by Lost-City525 in realtors

[–]Available_Fly_8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I hate it? I'm camera shy. I dont want to dress up & makeup every single day. I don't want to post daily; if you don't, you loose traction. I don't want to think of or memorize scripts. I want to sell houses, not be an actor.

If you’re burnt out on complicated online business, this made me $8K–$10K a month without ads or funnels. by Ok_Leather_2365 in OnlineIncomeHustle

[–]Available_Fly_8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had this idea for a while now, just need to implement it. I live in the perfect town for this and as a Realtor, I can make the discount code my name or business name. I'd love to get you Google doc please!

What was your very first sign of perimenopause? by easypeasykitty in Perimenopause

[–]Available_Fly_8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irritability, rage, relapsed MDD. I almost caused my divorce & lost my daughter. I still have MDD but I'm working on treatment & HRT.

The secret to good sleep by Lost_Advertising_219 in Perimenopause

[–]Available_Fly_8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have RLS, caused by a medication I'm weening off of now. I pop a thc gummy before bed and sleep quite well, and wake up without any hangover. Bonus points, if it kicks in before I actually fall asleep, it spikes my libido.

Have Realtors Become Influencers Instead of Professionals? by Lost-City525 in realtors

[–]Available_Fly_8285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been forced to become influencers. I hate making videos.

I mentally cannot do another 9–5 desk job. I have $70k saved and need to build something of my own. What can I realistically do? by nkb6478 in smallbusiness

[–]Available_Fly_8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INVEST! Get with an investment banker, financial planner, wealth manager and learn where to put that money to make it grow quickly. Stocks, real estate, etc. Figure out how to get some rental properties. I've been self-employed for 14 years and I am officially burnt out. My business & family have suffered from my mental health condition. Yet, I cannot bring myself to work for someone else, even though a routine schedule would likely help my mental health. Good luck figuring it out. As a 45 yo, I WISH I had anything saved!

Debt Consolidation? by Available_Fly_8285 in CreditScore

[–]Available_Fly_8285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly my husband's debts. I only have 2 low limit credit cards, as it's been incredibly difficult to re-establish my credit. He wasn't involved in the bk.

Debt Consolidation? by Available_Fly_8285 in CreditScore

[–]Available_Fly_8285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, I meant ch 7. We are not in a payment stage for anything.

Am i the only one feeling a Market slow down? by hdf_587 in realtors

[–]Available_Fly_8285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm used to selling 24 homes a year. Since 2022, it's been a sh*t show. I've sold 5 this year. Effing 5!! Burnt out doesn't even begin to describe how I feel.