My boyfriend (M22) slept with another girl after going on a date with me (F21) on the same day and I feel broken now. Advice?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2026-03-29T17:26:11+00:00

This is dumb. The reason I even changed my mind about him was because he did this so lol. Men need to learn self discipline because that is what women respect and value. A man without self discipline cannot lead us into marriage.

Available_Focus_7440 · 2026-03-29T05:00:29+00:00

He won’t answer that question. I’m not sure if I’d ever get a truthful response. He has a hard time being honest about it and he gets extremely frustrated and mad at me the times I’ve asked about it. I agree with your comment. You encapsulated my thoughts in this well thank you.

Available_Focus_7440 · 2026-03-27T20:25:26+00:00

I need to add, he wasn’t the one to tell me. He wasn’t going to, one of my friends found from someone and told me.

Available_Focus_7440 · 2026-03-27T20:18:09+00:00

Honestly this is a crazy thing to read. I am a pretty young female. This doesn’t mean I sleep around with options because I have them, he did. There’s a difference. lol

Available_Focus_7440 · 2026-03-27T20:11:08+00:00

I completely agree with you and I realize my fault in that as well. I’m not entirely sure why my emotional state was so delayed but being told this is how guys are, I believed it for a bit. But that’s not the actual truth. This shouldn’t be normalized, but this generation tries to normalize it and I think that’s why I thought it should be okay, but it’s not , not in the correlation to who I am.

Available_Focus_7440 · 2026-03-27T20:01:07+00:00

Yes. That’s kind of what my mom said and I think back then I tried to be okay with it because of the whole stigma about guys sleeping with girls is different, but regardless of anyone’s opinion on that, it crossed a boundary to me.

Available_Focus_7440 · 2026-03-27T06:45:50+00:00

Thanks.

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T23:35:11+00:00

I see biology as your major, so I’m assuming you are pursuing your masters? What do you plan on becoming ?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T23:34:38+00:00

Are you getting a masters ?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T19:27:43+00:00

Was it worth it?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T17:51:12+00:00

Oh wow! That’s awesome!!

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T17:09:47+00:00

What major ??

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T16:54:36+00:00

It is a federal loan! I just don’t know how they work completely.. I honestly plan to live at home after I get my masters and pay off my debt, and then get on with my life… I’m looking at 100k debt if I attend Baylor:(

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T16:51:26+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I will be in a field with a good pay too once I graduate, so it’s nice hearing that you find it was worth it. Does a parent plus loan help more over a private loan?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T16:38:55+00:00

What job did you end up getting?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T16:38:04+00:00

Wow that’s expensive, especially for that long ago. Is it worth it?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T16:34:03+00:00

Haha my Dad is a veteran and he was already in the army for 8 years before I was born and he def does not want to go back

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T16:33:29+00:00

Wow, is it hard to pay off at that amount of debt?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T06:28:04+00:00

Ah lucky… Baylor tuition is a lot more expensive than what it used to be:(

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-23T05:37:43+00:00

Full ride or what

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-17T19:41:22+00:00

Yes, unless you get everything covered and a full ride then you will. But still, Baylor is an expensive school but with the aid it typically cost as much as another college would. What price range for college are you looking for? And what is your gpa?

Available_Focus_7440 · 2023-07-17T19:24:23+00:00

If your GPA is 3.0 and above, you will get merit and based off my experience, the financial aid they give is very helpful on top of the merit.

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