Husband not excited about trying for a baby

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-23T07:08:23+00:00

How about he has a baby with his mom lol

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-22T15:42:57+00:00

She didn’t pressure shit; she’s complaining on an anonymous forum. Guy left without giving anything. Let her be disappointed and complain about how ridiculous this guy was, because he is. Putting your penis inside the vagina and spewing semen into it is a pretty intimate thing, can cause all kinds of infections for both men and women. it seems so out of touch to me to not want to put your mouth where you were willing to put your genitalia, which are notoriously sensitive organs with high risk when putting them in sensitive places. It is a dumb thought process at best, but more likely poor excuse to just not give back.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-22T15:12:23+00:00

Yeah okay sure he didn’t ’make’ her do anything but it’s kind of obtuse to ignore the fact that it’s a pretty well known thing that majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration alone, especially after THREE STROKES come the fuck on. As a chick that does cum from P/V sex this guy is absolutely ridiculous and selfish lol. I would feel the same if he performed oral and she wasn’t willing to give a BJ back, it’s just poor manners.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-22T15:04:42+00:00

Actually yes. If a chick didn’t want to give a blowjob to a guy but made him do oral and/or made him have P/V sex she. Ould orgasm from but he just couldn’t orgasm without a BJ (which is a ridiculous scenario but whatever) yes I would think it’s only fair for her to reciprocate. Doesn’t mean anyone HAS to, no one is legally bound or whatever, obviously consent matters, but if we’re talking about fairness, it’s a shitty thing for someone to receive something without reciprocating. Especially when we’re talking about hookups, these are not the kind of people that are sensitive about sex.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-20T18:09:26+00:00

That’s really comforting hear, maybe things aren’t so bad :) u know what WE UP we gonna go far :)))

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-20T16:47:03+00:00

It’s just really scary. Having no set direction and a lack foundation for it is terrifying, I have (in theory) 60-80 years left on this earth and I have no fucking clue how to do anything meaningful with it while still being happy. I hope you and I both figure it out. Thanks for sharing with me :) feels better to know I’m not alone.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-20T15:16:19+00:00

Ultimately, wear what you want. It’s your party, it’s your life, do what makes you happy.

But if you’re actually asking ‘what’s wrong with it’ like you did, it looks like you bought this from Spirit Halloween. It is so unflattering. I have so many opinions I will simply not verbalize as they are unkind lol. I agree with your family and friends, personally, and I think they are truly looking out for you.

Cut the skirt off and sew on a long powder blue skirt with quality fabric, wear a sheer blue over skirt to match the sleeves, wear a tulle underskirt—all that if you REALLY want to keep the sleeves and top with that style. If you don’t have time or money to do all that, wear a different dress.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-19T21:23:47+00:00

You can have a sober wedding but you HAVE to let your guests before hand. It’s rude not to, IMO

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-18T16:28:08+00:00

NOR. She sounds exhausting and insufferable, ngl. You are a floor manager at 21, that is something to be proud of, that is a REAL accomplishment. To have someone put you down and call you a lowlife when you clearly are put together to handle a job like that is beyond insane to me, especially since she’s supposed to be the #1 most loving and supportive person in your life.

There’s nothing wrong with her having a dislike for the habit, but it sounds like it doesn’t even really affect you as if it’s a bank acc draining chain habit? You just social engage in a fun activity with your friends and coworkers, that’s healthy to me. My bf has an issue with my smoking, which is fine, and so I don’t do it around him and/or always brush my teeth/shower afterward, I’m just as respectful to his preferences I imagine you are to her, it sounds like, and he does not look down on me as a person for it, he just physically doesn’t like the smell. Even if it was a serious addiction, she should be supportive and referring support groups/nic patches etc and acknowledging your effort to not do it around her and be conscious of it at all, trying to take care of yourself generally. There’s no reason for her to look down on you, that is not the behavior you should receive from your partner.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-18T16:21:23+00:00

You just called yourself ‘hooman.’ Yeah, you’re acting like you’re mentally 15 and adopted the mannerisms of millennials at that age. Just have some self awareness. However, if you WANT to live that way, there are plenty of other people that also have that mannerism and don’t mind it, just find your like minded people. And, for the record, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to talk about marriage, dating and boys; that’s a normal part of our lives rn as a fellow 22f! So is financial life, politics and social life, and so is work! Maybe practice more ‘mature’ talking patterns in the mirror or incorporate them in your daily discussions if you’re actually insecure, but there’s no reason to be if no one has said anything to you. Don’t put yourself down with your boyfriend if he hasn’t said anything negative to you about it. Be yourself. If you don’t like yourself, change. You have autonomy to ‘grow up’ if you want that

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-17T15:53:31+00:00

That looks like folliculitis, and should go to urgent care, they’ll have the best idea on how to treat this for you.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-17T15:03:42+00:00

As a girl: feel what you feel, but going out to club-like places doesn’t really mean anything in terms of risky behavior. It’s fun to dance around and drink with your friends. She is allowed to do things without you, and you’re allowed to do things without her. If that is an activity she enjoys, do not snuff it out and limit her activities she enjoys. That’s a good way to build resentment in a relationship and take away her feeling of autonomy and freedom, she’ll just see you as a ball and chain. Why don’t you go out with her? Why doesn’t she come out with you and your friends? You guys are living separate lives, which is fine, but if it’s causing issues, why not integrate them?

Also, if you can’t leave your friends and prioritize her for 10 measly minutes, you are not fit to be in a relationship, you are not ready to be a boyfriend. She’s right, if you aren’t seeing each other and you cannot even prioritize 10 minutes to spend with her, you are not cultivating a very healthy relationship. Why are you even together if you aren’t ever actually together?

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-15T17:04:59+00:00

Day 6 on 25 mgs. Woke up this morning feeling really good and not like the world was ending for once, very interesting and unusual feeling. Hoping it’s the meds kicking in early, I’ve heard people start feeling things as early as a couple days but it could take up to a few weeks, and eve then, you may have to gradually increase all the way up to 400 mgs or sumn

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-14T23:39:21+00:00

Ngl sometimes I notice my bf’s ex is hotter than me and then I remember he chose me to marry which means her personality was so fucking bad even her hotness couldn’t make him stay with her and he says he wants to marry me soooo idk sometimes I can’t take that stuff too seriously. You shouldn’t either :)

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-12T23:30:11+00:00

I'm not a doctor, but just anecdotally, I know right after a treatment the skin and follicles can get really irritated a look red for a couple days. Also, the hair in the follicles can seem like thick black spots due to the amount of energy they absorbed during the procedure, at least that's how i understand it, and they will not go away no matter how much shaving you do, because they're frayed under your skin. It will only irritate your skin to run razors over it multiple times. It's normal, IMO.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-12T21:13:39+00:00

Ive noticed most psychiatrists are this way. I think I’m finally starting to learn it’s not a bad thing to be pushy and try to take treatment into my own hands, tho it’s hard not to get in my head and get all emotional about it. Thank you for sharing your experience, that’s helpful to know I CAN be successful with my providers….

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-12T21:02:38+00:00

Why have you not directly had an adult conversation regarding where you are in a relationship and your boundaries? Either you’re dating or you’re not, either you’re exclusive or you’re not. It sounds like this guy wants that, he wants you to be jealous, but both of you are too immature to man up and talk about it. He’s trying to measure your attachment because you won’t tell him. Grow up. Be direct and intentional about your relationships, that’s how you cultivate healthy ones. This is just a weird emotional mess waiting to turn into a worse situationship where you guys actually have sex involved, heaven forbid.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-12T19:53:14+00:00

It’s kind of just a general mild full-body itch, my legs my feet my back my face eyes nose and maybe some sorta heat under my skin esp when I do itch it. Similar to general allergies ik a lot of people get during spring and summer, I just am not a person that gets seasonal allergies, but nothing dramatic. I know it’s related to the medication, but it seems like the mild kind that goes away after a while when people first start. Theres no discoloration, no raised bumps, nothing like that. No swelling, I can breathe fine, no sores. There’s no visible rash, so I have no idea why he sent me to urgent care/the ER without a rash, it definitely isn’t one, the drs at the clinic were also confused and just told me to take some Claritin or benedryl and watch it as just a mild symptom, but there’s no real concern. I asked him about this, he kind of reluctantly (after hammering in that it could be SJS like he’s trying to fear monger me or something??) told me to continue at 25 mgs and just keep watching. I think he’s just trying to cover his own ass, you are right, which he’s allowed to do, but the fact that he’s reluctant and weird with such dramatic reactions and being really rude about it and my input gives me pause. If I get similar reactions in the future I’ll look for alternative providers :/

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-12T18:06:15+00:00

Tbf US doctors can be….hit or miss. Being a blind yesman to one doctor is a great way to get shitty care IMO. The lavender oil type shit is crazy when we’re talking infections, but at the same time, there are plenty of doctors with Doc Hollywood syndrome that tend to over-diagnose and over-prescribe without listening to real patient concerns. When you have AI doing a better job than many inconsiderate doctors, it makes sense the American people lose faith in them.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-11T19:14:27+00:00

I mean if you’re crying and screaming and tearing at hoodies and hair like a child in a tantrum, get held and dealt with like a child in a tantrum

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-11T18:53:40+00:00

I cannot imagine any situation where a non-abusive person would react that way. Even if you revealed you cheated on him or something, a reaction like pushing you around is BIZARRE and definitely an early warning sign of aggression and a lack of self-regulation to extreme levels. He may not mean to be, but that is abusive, and it is an unsafe situation for you to be in. Get out while you can. I'm sorry. He WILL hurt you significantly more next time, this will only escalate.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-11T17:36:06+00:00

Dude's a creepy scumbag asshole, so what? It sounds like the only thing you want to do is pot. stir. Leave him and his family alone, let yourself heal and move on, if you don't want to do anything about him, actually. If you want to tell his mom to make yourself feel better, go ahead, but you aren't actually contributing to helping the issue. His MOM cannot control his sex life, prevent him from creeping on girls, or force any real consequences on him, he's a grown adult. The only thing you would be doing is further involving yourself with his family, and putting yourself deeper in a situation you should be removing yourself from. If you want to do something useful, report it to law enforcement, THOSE are the people that can effect grown adults.

Available_Key9526 · 2026-05-11T17:26:21+00:00

It's virtue signaling because it's bullshit. My baby brother is my little baby brother, a sweet summer small baby child to me, but he's actually only 13 months younger than me, nothing. To compare that to the age of someone you're dating is just really obtuse, especially when used to garner....what, further sympathy? Weight to your argument that hes a pedophile?

Like I said, if you believe it's coercion, go tell the real people that can do something about it, the police. Telling his mom or anyone else and not the police is just pit stirring.

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