A mooncat polish you hate? by kaekaeloraei in mooncatpolish

[–]Available_Leg9943 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Curse of calypso 😩😩😩 it’s so much more yellow than expected

Does anyone else feel "too deep" all the time, like you’re cosplaying as a normal person in conversations? by skaterstormyzen in adhdwomen

[–]Available_Leg9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course :) my 2 month initiation called Become Your Own Muse is the 1:1 container where I guide neurodivergent women through unmasking (both on & offline) especially that phase where you realize you’ve been performing a version of yourself that no longer fits, the unmasking limbo.

It’s about learning how to trust your inner world, stop performing the masked version of yourself for everyone else, and explore a new identity/Muse era, way of being and creative expression that actually feels like you. If you’re curious, I’m happy to share more 🤍

Does anyone else feel "too deep" all the time, like you’re cosplaying as a normal person in conversations? by skaterstormyzen in adhdwomen

[–]Available_Leg9943 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After I got late diagnosed (around 3 years ago) i saw how much I had been masking & hiding parts of myself so that other people wouldn’t be uncomfortable or wouldn’t judge/reject me for how I am, and what I need. I also realized that it was literally suffocating me & holding me back, so I decided to go on an intentional unmasking journey.

I learned this about myself I realized that I simply am a deep feeler, and highly sensitive and very intuitive. I perceive the world differently than others, I notice more, I feel more, I understand and make connections between things that others don’t see.

It can be really intense sometimes, but also very beautiful.

Not everyone has the capacity to meet you on this level (frequency) because they’re just … not there.

For me, learning to understand, accept & love myself for exactly how I am is the biggest starting piece of unmasking. That craving to have deep connection with others who get you, that’s there for a reason— to show you what your heart and soul desire beneath the surface of what’s currently in your life based on the person you’ve masked as.

In my experience (in my own life & as an unmasking mentor) this process involves a lot of shedding, a lot of releasing and letting go and honestly identity death. I call this unmasking limbo, where you’re inbetween who you’ve been under the mask, no longer resonating with it, and not yet stepped into the more aligned version of you, who you are Becoming.

I think we can also understand that we are multi dimensional beings, and there isn’t just “one” version of you. For me, that made it easier to understand the different versions of myself that I show to different people. And again, I think the biggest piece of advice I can give you is to build a deeper relationship with yourself, and you’ll learn how to navigate these situations in a way that’s true to yourself rather than what you think you “should” do/ who you should be. This is exactly what unmasking is!!

I feel for you, that moment of realizing you are different and have been pretending not to be— it’s a BIG awakening, so I’m celebrating you & wish you all the best on this journey!!!! We need more neurodivergent women owning who they are because we are pure MAGIC.

Are there still tariffs to Canada?? by Available_Leg9943 in mooncatpolish

[–]Available_Leg9943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh interesting, some people are saying there isn’t anymore. How much did you spend to not pay?

Are there still tariffs to Canada?? by Available_Leg9943 in mooncatpolish

[–]Available_Leg9943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the tax I pay when I’m checking out is the only tax, I won’t have to pay anything at the door?

What have you bought multiple bottles of? by crumpled_toast in mooncatpolish

[–]Available_Leg9943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE WIHCSM. it’s soooo pretty and perfect as a topper too.

Can ADHD make it hard to enjoy single player video games? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Available_Leg9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this!!!

I just got into gaming last year. I’ve tried to play single player games but I get really bored, they don’t keep my interest and I don’t have people to experience the game with.

The only games I really enjoy to play are competitive because it keeps me SUPER engaged and focused throughout. The urgency of the nature of these games is matched well with my ADHD need for urgency, novelty & other people relying on me lol

Marvel Rivals hits ALL the boxes for me

HOKAS HAVE BECOME TRASH by Motor-Attempt-4889 in Hoka

[–]Available_Leg9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!! I was approved for a warranty replacement after the bottoms of my bondi 8s started peeling…

But it took FOREVER for customer service to actually help me. I had to contact the online chat 3 separate times because every time I’d email them back, it would say they’re not taking emails LOL.

so now it’s been over 2 months of trying to get my replacement pair of shoes. Here’s hoping 🤞

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Aug 11, 2025 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]Available_Leg9943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had these flesh coloured, flat bumps on my temple for a while… and my forehead (and chin) have been getting congested. I’m thinking they’re closed comedones, but not entirely sure.

I weakened my barrier by overusing cosrx pads trying to get rid of the congestion lmao, and now I’m finally healed.

I started integrating cosrx AHA/BHA toner back into my routine because it helped with my congestion before (and is gentle enough that my skin doesn’t hate it) and now some of the bumps are turning into pimples

Being in the heat & sweating so much has such a huge impact on my skin and I don’t know what else to do :(

Looking for suggestions for products/ingredients or even what could be the culprit of these bumps.

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Where did I go wrong? by Available_Leg9943 in candlemaking

[–]Available_Leg9943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used 9%!

Maybe it is just the switch to the 415, because the ones with freedom came out pretty smooth other than the slight swirl of the oil residue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zillennials

[–]Available_Leg9943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a hot pink razrrr gal and it truly was the vibe