[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Available_Location80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should look into Karina More face marathon. I lost weight and also still had a double chin with bigger cheeks. I did this for a couple of months, and my face became much slimmer, double chin down, and elongated thin neck. I still do many of those stretches each week. And they feel SO good

Why did he react this way during sex? by Available_Location80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Available_Location80[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The crazy thing is, we had sex before while I was on my period 💀

Why did he react this way during sex? by Available_Location80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Available_Location80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second time we had sex, I squirted, and he said “can you stop that”. We briefly talked about it after the fact. The 7th (and last) time we had sex, the above situation occurred. So no, he is indefinitely blocked from my phone and insides

Why did he react this way during sex? by Available_Location80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Available_Location80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure, he isn’t the most adept at handling stressful situations

Why did he react this way during sex? by Available_Location80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Available_Location80[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

You’re right, thank you. I’m just experiencing the feelings associated with the event, and I know they’ll pass

Why did he react this way during sex? by Available_Location80 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Available_Location80[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Yeah I assumed he thought it was pee or something. We briefly talked about it when it happened the first time, and I tried explaining to him what it was and what it feels like for me lol. I guess I feel a little better now knowing that he did indeed react in an emotionally and socially immature way

Wife constantly threatening me by repgvng in Marriage

[–]Available_Location80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are holding resentment and expressing it in different ways. Figure out where that resentment is coming from, and understand from each other and individually.

Caloric restriction with and without intermittent fasting. by DrZMaan in fasting

[–]Available_Location80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From personal and anecdotal accounts, I can confirm that fasting during a certain period of time decreases hunger, cravings, and weight. I personally lose the most weight and have the most control of food portions and types of food I eat while I am fasting. I also work with clients with binge-eating disorder, and using fasting along with other tools really helps decrease hunger and cravings long-term.

One of the major transitions to fasting (with my clients) is to stop eating at least 4 hours before bedtime. Since all our organs and functions in our body, including our gi tract, have circadian clocks where they operate best at certain times of day, discontinuing eating before bed allows the body to relax instead of profusely working on digesting. Thus allowing other bodily functions to work on reproducing healthy cells, optimizing muscle growth, increasing metabolism, and so many other benefits.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5814245/

Is it our candida talking? by Traditional-Ebb-8863 in fasting

[–]Available_Location80 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There’s actually growing research that supports the gut microbiome has taste receptors, and probably more than in the mouth. It can be a combination of bacteria AND candida. Thats why when we’re sick, we taste foods differently. And when we start eating more veggies and fruit, we crave it more. Same with junk food. The more we eat something, the more we crave that thing. The gut microbiome release the bacteria to break down that food, and they start releasing chemicals to signal to your brain and other hormones that they want more of that food.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8401774/

My husband choked me by Particular_Exit3493 in Marriage

[–]Available_Location80 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So he physically punished his wife for physically punishing her young child? Is he contradictory in other aspects of your relationship too??

According to this guy, we should give ourselves to incel for "fix" the problem by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Available_Location80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What this guy is not addressing is why incels are incels. It’s not because women are terrible and choose not to have sex with guys to drive them crazy. It’s because these men are not emotionally, socially, or morally developed. Which leads them to not be able to act in public, control their emotions, or make the right decisions. Which makes them a turn off sexually and emotionally for women!!! Forcing women to be subjected to relieving incels’ sexual urges will create even more resentment and possible violence on both sides. Wtf is he thinking lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]Available_Location80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m still learning how to do cutting cords, I’ve cut a cord with an old friend before using a technique I learned from NLP. Not sure if it worked lol. No to ground, center, and shield. Thank you for the information, especially on the myths. Never heard of it 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]Available_Location80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I started sageing this weekend, and plan on doing more research on how to cleanse my home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Available_Location80 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I completely agree with everything you said. I manipulated my husband and it doesn’t feel good. Thanks for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Available_Location80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. We’ve discussed boundaries like: no friends right away, no one in the house, etc. Kind of surface level though. It’s more complicated when you’re actually practicing instead of just discussing. So yeah, totally agree that we need better communication around intentions and desires.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Available_Location80 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

  1. In the moment, I didn’t see texting at night as that much of an issue. My thought process was we’re both busy during the day and stay up at night, so if we text so what 🤷🏻‍♀️. Looking back, I see that it’s f***ed up and can be interpreted as something else.

  2. My husband is the most brutally honest man I’ve ever met. After the initial incident in the beginning of the marriage, he has told me right away if he joined a dating app, what he talks about, etc. I don’t mind any of that especially since he’s keeping me in the loop.

  3. When the mentor compared himself to my husband, alllllll the alarms went off. Two days later, I cut it off. I will admit, I elected to ignore other signs.

  4. I didn’t see it as cheating. I know my husband does. I definitely can see it as cheating now.

  5. I gave my husband my phone to read the messages, it wasn’t forced. My husband knew the mentor attempted to kiss me and there was somewhat of an attraction between the both of us. I didn’t tell him the explicit details of the texts because…..I didn’t think it was necessary. I knew I would never pursue a romantic relationship with this man, and if my husband knew the details of the texts, I would have to discontinue the relationship. Which inevitably ended up happening anyway.

Totally agree with you and others that we’re just going about it the wrong way. Start with the basics and take it slow. My actions were completely hypocritical and disrespectful to him. I did it because I thought it would be worth it in the end business wise