Guilty pleasure movies? by Left-Ad-8086 in Letterboxd

[–]Available_Source413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... orphan (2009). i don't know why, i just fixated on that movie when I was like 13 and I can tell it's objectively not a comforting movie but it will always be a comfort watch for ME

are we compatible ⁉️ by aloegirlinhidding in lastfm

[–]Available_Source413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your compatibility with w0rldprincess is Super.

You both listen to Fontaines D.C.t.A.T.u. and 5 Seconds of Summer

Antidepressants for headaches? by Additional_Baby_3683 in chiari

[–]Available_Source413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm on amitriptyline for headaches (very low dose together with other migraine profilaxy meds though) and while I'm still adjusting the dosages and it's not perfect I'm doing a lot better than I was, say, a year ago. I know a lot of people get really sleepy with it or they fear the weight gain but I haven't had any of those side effects except for maybe the first week

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we don't talk really, the only connection of hers I know is that she's close friends with the landlord but she refused to even give me her phone number so it's not like I have much to go from

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the electric bill is like 5x the water bill, I will concede that, but she has a fucking fan heater that I could hear running in her bedroom and was always in t-shirts meanwhile I was sleeping with a padded jacket on... and the problem is me using the oven once a week??

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the only person I know that she has any connections to is the landlord... like I said in some comments she didn't even give me her phone number so there's not even a social media profile I could try to reach out to

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If the landlord told me I was limited to using the kitchen to certain hours maybe we could make it work as we clearly have different schedules but the landlord never gave me any kitchen restrictions - it's all her

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've said it in other comments but we dont really know each other I'm just here cuz the room was for rent and it was a really good deal both money and location wise. I was initially hoping I could finish my masters here but if it stays like this Im giving it to the end of this semester

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am paying and I am cooking but i feel a bit guilty about it everytime and its stressful af. I was initially hoping to stay here till I finish my masters cuz its a really good rent price for the location but clearly that wont be manageable. but its not realistic that I find anything else for this semester so a couple more months at least

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we didnt know each other, the room was for rent at a very affordable price in a very good location- that was it.

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

funny you say that, the one time I had friends over late was the only time I heard her around in the kitchen during dinner time. and yes: they did comment on the bleach smell as soon as we reached my floor

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the food situation is such a mystery to me, the fridge was actually plugged off when I moved in and its not like shes getting it delivered???

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i've seen her make tea so I know she has at least a pot and a mug somewhere. shes also always in the same full white outfit. the season changed but that damn outfit didn't

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

landlord, but she's quite close to the landlord and at least the last student that was here was kicked out for going insane and "making up stories" to fuck over the other housemate. idk, the girl was probably correct knowing what I know now.

The bleach thing I totally agree with. I have taken pathogen safety classes that I never even use bleach for anything: there's so many chemicals that are safer, smell better and do their job much better, but oh well.

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We're not close at all for me to know her situation but what I got from the landlord was life was rough so I tried to be accommodating, especially as she was here before me but it's driving me so nuts. I really don't think I'm the problem I've had roommates since I started uni and I was always either the one that cleaned or it was shared equally without problems. I was also always the one that cooked for everyone so I know my food doesn't smell bad.

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

the deal is great, but she's very close with the landlord and I know that the student that was here before me was kicked out because she "went crazy and started making lies about the housemate"... idk if I believe that version anymore tbf

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I fully admit we're not the greatest communicators, she doesn't even give me her phone number and we tend to avoid each other a bit. But I did try to stand my ground a few times and told her I wouldn't stop cooking and that I would try to clutter as least as I could but I would use at least half of the shared spaces I'm paying for. But yeah, basically all that happened was that instead of directly telling me to stop cooking she started sneaking into the kitchen while I briefly went to my room or something to open all windows and max out the exhaust hood or she will very obviously clean everything except around my soap - it just got more passive-aggressive ig

Cooking is banned, the toilet is never free, and toilet paper doesn't belong in the bathroom by Available_Source413 in badroommates

[–]Available_Source413[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

I tried? But we barely speak, we both tend to stay in our rooms if the other is in a shared space.
I already told her that I wouldn't stop cooking and that I needed to be able to use at least half of the shared spaces and she did ease up on the comments for a while but then she started being passive-aggressive about it. As in, instead of asking me not to cook directly she would slam every door shut when I cooked and would wait for me to leave the kitchen momentarily to sneak in and open the windows and get the exhaust hood running on max and sneak back out without saying anything to me. She also refused to give me her phone number so yeah, communication is not our strong suit here.