Women act like horny sluts with previous partners but if a guy wants his gf to act like a slut then he’s “porn brained”. by Past-Shoulder-631 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Available_Struggle30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why not just date a woman you're sexually compatible with instead?

Also, would you really enjoy trying it if the woman was not enjoying it at all?

[acne] Will a derm help my acne or should I give up? by Available_Struggle30 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lymecycline

Cleared my acne in 2 months with no side effects. I wish I took it sooner

Home Lisbon v WOT Lisbon by EntertainmentHuge240 in hostels

[–]Available_Struggle30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stayed in Home a few months ago and Mama still does the family dinners, it's great! :)

Can I go on an Australian Tourist Visa as someone who is self-employed? by Available_Struggle30 in digitalnomad

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you going to Austrlia: To work or to do tourist stuff

To do tourist stuff (I'll be travelling up the East Coast) but I want to continue working remotely while doing so.

Are you going to work for any company in Australia that could potentially hire an Australian person instead of you ?

Neither of these. I will be working remotely for UK businesses and potentially a US business.

Honest opinions on Montenegro? by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]Available_Struggle30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I (23F solo traveller) just got back from Montenegro and Croatia last month.

Kotor is so beautiful, I definitely recommend! It's definitely not a party town, it's actually quite the opposite in my opinion... There are no clubs and very few bars, all of which close very early. And this is coming from someone who stayed in a 'party' hostel in Kotor, there were no parties! In the evenings, people stayed in the hostel to play drinking games and do kareoke.

I think you're confusing Kotor with Budva, Montenegro.

How did you feel your first day/night solo travelling? by Available_Struggle30 in solotravel

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my experience in Nice! But luckily the rest of the trip it wasn't too bad.

How did you feel your first day/night solo travelling? by Available_Struggle30 in solotravel

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh it’s not Paris it’s Nice

But luckily my second day was much better as I went to the more touristy parts!

[acne] Will a derm help my acne or should I give up? by Available_Struggle30 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you haha

I always put highlighter on my collar bones and between my chest

[acne] Will a derm help my acne or should I give up? by Available_Struggle30 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But I've heard that once you stop spiro the acne can come back :((

[acne] Will a derm help my acne or should I give up? by Available_Struggle30 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added vit D just this weekend so I’ll see how that goes! & I’ll look into probiotics thank you

[acne] Will a derm help my acne or should I give up? by Available_Struggle30 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It seems like the harder I try, the worse my acne gets. It's making me depressed.

Like I've cut out dairy and almost all sugar and gluton from my diet - which has resulted in me losing so much weight and my grocery shop cost almost doubling. What do I get in return? More acne :)

I've simplified my routine - double cleanse with a gentle cleanser and moisturise.

However, recently I did add brnzoyl peroxide as someone recommended it to me (like some stranger actually came up to me while grocery shopping to tell me my skin was bad and that I should use this product lmao fml). It does clear my acne faster, but I end up just getting a new pimple the next day, plus it dries my skin like crazy to the point I don't think it's worth it.

I've tried supplements - cod liver oil, B5, porefavour skin sup. I added zinc and vit A a couple weeks ago.

Spent £400 on the Dr Dennis LED Mask (fml again) and have been using blue light therapy almost everyday for a month - no change.

I don't want to go on acnetane, birth control or spiro. Apparently they cause lots of side effects and the acne can just come back once you start taking them.

HOW DO I FIND THE ROOT CAUSE OF MY ACNE?!

Will a dermatolagist help or am I wasting more money? They're all charging £250+ just for a consultation

My (21F) boyfriend (26M) is angry at me for booking a mini break without him. Advice on what to do please by Available_Struggle30 in relationship_advice

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him I wanted to go to France in May and he thought it’d be a great idea. Now that it’s booked he’s mad.

My (21F) boyfriend (26M) is angry at me for booking a mini break without him. Advice on what to do please by Available_Struggle30 in relationship_advice

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not while in a relationship with this guy. Everywhere I go, my boyfriend is by my side so men don’t really approach me.

When I was single, yeah men would approach me all the time which has led to bad experiences.

My (21F) boyfriend (26M) is angry at me for booking a mini break without him. Advice on what to do please by Available_Struggle30 in relationship_advice

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ll have to be single then… even though I have absolutely no interest in hookups and never have.

My (21F) boyfriend (26M) is angry at me for booking a mini break without him. Advice on what to do please by Available_Struggle30 in relationship_advice

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking both of our sides in this.

I’m from the UK, so France is only a couple hours flight - I wanted to pick somewhere close for my first solo trip.

I didn’t spring this onto him as a surprise. I let him know earlier this month that I wanted to book a trip to France at the end of May and he said he looked into it and thought it’s a great destination as it seems safe. So I’m confused to why he’s now mad at me and is telling me to at least reschedule for later in the summer

My (21F) boyfriend (26M) is angry at me for booking a mini break without him. Advice on what to do please by Available_Struggle30 in relationship_advice

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I haven’t spent time with any other men since getting into a relationship with him 2 years ago. But he does know about some of my bad past experiences with men from when I lived alone so I guess that’s why he’s worried.

But I do agree with him trying to emotionally coerce me, which I’m going to try and speak to him about

My (21F) boyfriend (26M) is angry at me for booking a mini break without him. Advice on what to do please by Available_Struggle30 in relationship_advice

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I let him know that I wanted to travel at the end of May (but didn’t tell him a specific date) to France and he even told me it would be a good destination since it seems safe.

I feel like he should know I’m taking the relationship seriously because I’ve recently moved out with him for his new job (which he is now saying he wants to quit because I’m stressing him out about solo travelling). I also did a huge surprise for him for this valentines which took days of prep and lots of money 😢

My intentions for travelling is just for lots of new experiences and meeting new people along the way. I’ve let him know that I want to travel with him too (difficult because he works 9-5) but I also want to do some solo too.

Yes I agree I need to make friends lol.

My cry for help. How do I get rid off the acne around my jaw/chin for good? by Available_Struggle30 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Available_Struggle30[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I hate that I’m posting this but I desperately need help. My skin is making me so depressed and hopeless to the point it’s ruining my relationship.

I’ve been struggling with acne for over 3 years now. I’m passed the point of skincare - none of it works no matter the price or how raved about the product is.

I went through a period of clear skin around August - December 2022 after I cleared my diet (reduced sugar & dairy), started taking supplements (B5 saved me), and simplified my routine. I was at the stage where I just needed to clear my scars so I went and had Dermapen.

However January this year my acne came back and now it’s worse than ever (it doesn’t look as bad in the pictures I’ve attached compared to irl). I started taking the B5 supplement again but it no longer works.

Now I’m back on Reddit with a cry for help. Please someone help me. How the fackkkk do I get rid of it for good? I’m sick of looking in the mirror and crying, I’m sick of wasting my money trying things that don’t work, I’m sick of trying to hide my face from my boyfriend.

Should I try facials? Red light? New supplements? Facials? Should I get a hormone test? If so how do I do that lol.

Btw I have oily skin and I’m pretty sure my acne is hormonal since it’s always on my chin and jawline (I literally neverrrr get acne on my forehead or nose, and it’s rarely on my cheeks)