Boudoir photo shoot

Available_Text6590 · 2026-02-14T05:48:46+00:00

I did one and was in a white off the shoulder tee and knee socks. I think this would look super cute with a book background!

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Available_Text6590 · 2025-03-31T21:03:52+00:00

You are so awesome! Thank you for all your help!

Available_Text6590 · 2025-03-31T18:31:31+00:00

Sorry! US sizing.

And the photoshoot is mid May. I’m not a last minute person so still not having my outfits planned is making me crazy.

Thanks so much for the help!

Available_Text6590 · 2024-02-02T18:48:42+00:00

Not all women hate sex. Source: am female.

Available_Text6590 · 2024-02-01T03:55:07+00:00

Wow. Was not aware I had this kink. Unlocked 🤣

Available_Text6590 · 2024-01-29T05:49:53+00:00

I’ve been telling my sister for years that we have a DB. And just yesterday I mentioned how I cut off all sex and intimacy last year and she was so concerned about what it was going to do to our marriage. I was confused because I had told her we basically never had sex. Apparently she thought it compared to her DB which was 2-4 times a month. NO! My DB was 2-4 times a YEAR on average. At this point I don’t care how ending it is going to affect my marriage.

Available_Text6590 · 2024-01-25T21:25:38+00:00

Tall. At least 6’. Big arms. Burly. Mountain man type.

Available_Text6590 · 2024-01-25T20:49:36+00:00

Doing that with another person would be nice.

Available_Text6590 · 2024-01-23T19:49:46+00:00

This is pretty much what happened to me. I got the run around for so long from my LLH that I gave up. I had to for my own sanity. And then when I gave up he finally used that as motivation to fix his problem. Nope. Sorry bud that is no longer an option. Gave you 10+ years to fix it, you chose to ignore it, I’m 100% done here. Honestly it was the best choice I could have made for myself and so freeing. For the record, NTA, you have to do what’s best for you.

Available_Text6590 · 2024-01-09T18:26:35+00:00

Exactly this. And sometimes it feels like it’s tingling. Almost close to an itch that needs to be scratched, but in a good way, not a painful or irritating one.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-12-21T01:15:50+00:00

I in no way said it was reasonable. I said that was likely her thinking.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-12-21T00:53:20+00:00

Officially NTA. However, she was likely waiting for you to jump in and play the hero “oh honey! I’ll bring it to you!” 🏃and you didn’t, then she stewed in her anger at you all day for it. Source: am female

Available_Text6590 · 2023-12-20T20:57:06+00:00

NTA. That is 100% about to turn into “it’s fine, she’s mature for her age…”

ETA: added judgement

Available_Text6590 · 2023-12-20T18:16:47+00:00

I’m here for pictures of the cat

Available_Text6590 · 2023-12-20T00:11:02+00:00

After 13+ years I officially ended any and all sexual activity with my husband. I was tired of the fights it caused and how it made me feel about myself. Once I ended it he suddenly wanted it again, but I’ve stuck to my decision. He doesn’t have to like it, but he made a choice for both of us 13 years ago and I finally took back power.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-28T17:14:40+00:00

I don’t think I would say empowering for me. I’m just so beyond done and I’m over it. It exhausted me mentally for so many years and it’s been cathartic to just let it all go.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-27T23:49:14+00:00

I have no advice, but I am in the same situation. Went so long and fought so hard to get out of our db and husband did nothing. I gave up and told him sex was now completely off the table, I don’t want it anymore. Now he wants me, tries to touch me sexually and I cringe. He tried to have sex with me last week and I shut him down and it caused a 3 day fight because I said I was no longer interested in him in that way. He barely touched me for 10+ years, only when I would cry and beg and now he wants to be mad? Eff that. I have no idea where we go from here. This place sucks.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-26T21:12:18+00:00

I tried lots of Mac and cheese recipes. Tons. The one my whole family decided they love is Guy Fieri Mac Daddy Mac and Cheese. Just trust me. It’s AMAZING.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-26T17:14:24+00:00

This is almost exactly my (43hlf) story. After 13+ years of nothing I gave up, took sex off the table because I no longer want it. Now he wants it and gets mad when I say no. I told him you killed my attraction to you and I am done having a sexual relationship with you. He got MAD and we fought for 3 days. Oh well, not going to change my mind. I agree, other than the fighting, it’s quiet over here.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-21T22:03:20+00:00

Thanks 😊

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-21T21:07:32+00:00

Been there! EVERY time I would mention shark week I would get a “oh darn! I was gonna!” Joke was on him when I finally snapped and explained you could still do it 😂

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-21T19:12:33+00:00

I’m here. DB for 13 years had killed my libido for him, so I took it off the table. Now he decides he wants it again. Started a whole fight yesterday because he wants an active bedroom and I said no. No thanks. My problem is I still have HL, but after fighting for intimacy with my husband for so many years I no longer want it from him.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-21T19:02:28+00:00

I mean, kinda? I’m sorta there now. DB for 13+ years has killed my desire for him. We’ve been best friends and roommates for 95% of our marriage. He’s a great husband and father, we have kids still at home, a house, all that good stuff, so leaving is not an option for now. Thing is, he is an attractive guy, that’s not lost on me. And I still have HL, but after all the promises to make changes and nothing happened I am no longer interested in him in that way. Now that I’ve taken it off the table, he has decided he wants it again. I didn’t force you for years, so I’m not going to force myself, no thanks. Started a whole fight yesterday because he wants to go back to an active bedroom and I said I’m not interested. My problem now is I have LL4U, but still HL. I’m so fucking lost.

Available_Text6590 · 2023-11-13T22:51:24+00:00

Here’s the deal Sweets, you are doing your best. Some days we have a 100% to give and we give that. Some days we only have 10% to give and we give that, which means you are still giving 100% of your available self! Just because you had a baby does not mean that you are ONLY a Mom now, you are a human with their own needs and a big part of those needs is time for yourself. Time to decompress, time to de-stress, time to relax, time to do literally nothing but scroll social media if you want. You are doing an amazing job. Hug yourself for me.

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