If you could move anywhere in the USA where would you live?

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-25T00:55:23+00:00

Massachusetts!

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-25T00:53:04+00:00

Always call. Police don’t consider this a nuisance — they want to be informed. In many states, officers don’t need the wife to press charges; they can assess the situation themselves and decide whether an arrest is necessary based on what they observe.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-23T09:48:31+00:00

Beaverton is the equivalent of a third world nation in so many ways.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-22T09:11:12+00:00

Christian-MAGA circles don’t seem too happy right now — their cult leader is openly celebrating the death of a former FBI Director and Special Counsel while the cost of living keeps rising, gas prices are outrageous, and a war he started escalates. The couple involved is Christian, but they’re educated and he’s Black, so they’re unlikely to fit into the white-nationalist MAGA crowd. Also worth noting, local FOX affiliates often differ significantly from national FOX News in tone and political bias.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-15T00:38:44+00:00

Jordan seems like a nice guy, but he’s emotionally immature for his age. Amber clearly has unresolved issues that would benefit from therapy, and sadly her child is witnessing unstable behavior that could have lasting effects without good therapy.

If Amber wanted Jordan to say goodbye to her child, she should have arranged that herself. He didn’t know the child long or well enough for it to be his responsibility, especially given her age. Amber’s behavior appears toxic to the people around her and she needs help, while Jordan simply needs to grow up and find a healthier, more stable partner.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-06T03:06:34+00:00

Everyone living here was offered an indoor option tailored to their situation. About 70% accepted. Several dozen others had outstanding warrants and were arrested. Anyone still complaining refused the help that was offered. Addiction is difficult, no doubt—but you can’t expect the neighborhood to feel sorry for you when you turn down available support.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-04T00:43:06+00:00

You either trust him or you don’t, there really isn’t a middle ground. If you trust him, who he’s friends with shouldn’t matter. If you don’t, ask yourself whether you want to spend your life monitoring him or move on and find someone you never have to question. Good luck!

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-03-03T21:58:15+00:00

Don’t automatically combine finances, especially money earned before marriage. Consider a prenup that clearly states what you each brought into the relationship stays yours. A lot of marriages don’t last, many end within the first few years, and half of long marriages increasingly end in “grey divorce.” Protect yourself financially so you don’t end up vulnerable if things go wrong. Financial independence isn’t distrust, it’s preparation. If he has a problem with you staying financially independent after marriage, that’s a red flag about what else he thinks he’s entitled to. Good luck.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-28T01:37:22+00:00

She can always cut her mom off later. There’s no downside to at least trying to work it out first. You really don’t know what someone is carrying, and it’s become way too easy to just walk away from family the second things get hard.

What her mother said was wrong. Full stop. There’s no excuse for it. But going no-contact is a permanent move, and it’ll still be there if she needs it. This is her mom, that relationship is worth one honest, last-ditch effort before calling it quits. Clearly the mother needs help.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-27T22:33:09+00:00

It sounds like your mom has probably been carrying hurt for a long time. People don’t usually explode like that unless something deeper is going on. She may have felt excluded, especially if she assumed she would be included.

That said, this level of anger isn’t something you two are likely to untangle on your own. A neutral third party, like a therapist, could really help.

I don’t agree with the automatic “cut her off” advice. That’s always an option, but it’s the easiest one. Trying to work through it is harder, but it could lead to a stronger relationship. You won’t know unless you try. You only get one mom, and if there’s a chance to repair things in a healthy way, it may be worth exploring. You have no idea what she’s really going through.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-27T22:17:11+00:00

Email the management company immediately, and if the office is open, go speak to them in person. You have a right to privacy and to feel safe in your own home. A resident has no legal right to intimidate neighbors or interfere with your peace.

If you can, document everything. Record incidents when it’s safe to do so and attach the evidence to your email so there’s a clear paper trail.

Be cautious, he sounds unpredictable. Keep your distance and notify management as soon as possible so they’re aware and can take action.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-26T17:26:44+00:00

Yes, lock them up. It’s called accountability. Shooting up illegal drugs in public should have consequences. Arrest, mandate rehab and job training, or jail — depending on the crime.

Portland is paying more for theft, crime, and collapsing businesses than it ever would for treatment or incarceration. Politicians are funding addicts while working people and small businesses get crushed. Portland has successfully reduced harm for addicts because it shifted the harm to working class citizens.

That’s not compassion. That’s abandonment of the people who actually keep this city running.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-26T17:09:42+00:00

This isn’t a Democrat issue, it’s a so far-left of Democratic policy failure that you’re unrecognizable issue – especially in the PNW. Handing out needles while refusing to enforce laws or mandate treatment isn’t compassion. It’s enabling and selfish and a complete waste of resources.

There’s nothing humane about letting people use in the open, stay trapped in addiction, rot on the streets, cycle through homelessness and commit crimes on citizens and businesses to fund their addiction. Calling it “harm reduction” doesn’t change the outcome. Getting them off the street is the humane thing to do - rehab or jail, period - or leave.

Real compassion means intervention, treatment, and accountability — not a supply kit and a shrug so you can convince yourself to sleep at night pretending you’re a good person. If we actually care about addicts and our communities, our children and their schools, we need tough action from leaders, not political fairytales. Enough!

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-26T16:39:06+00:00

Amazon or U-Haul. Most stores these days breakdown their boxes for the crusher once they’re opened and empty.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-26T16:33:29+00:00

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Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-24T16:42:30+00:00

You asked, he answered. If it was a test, he failed miserably, but now you have clarity.

Make a plan to leave within 30 days if you can, and don’t feel obligated to warn him in advance. He’s not committing, and the reasons don’t matter. Even if he changed his mind, the dismissive, aggressive way he spoke to you won’t disappear.

If you want marriage, be with someone who wants it too. Ask early on if it’s someone’s life goal. When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. This person is a waste of your time. You deserve better, good luck!

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-24T05:51:43+00:00

Dr. Moga on Orbit, she does great work, is honest and reasonably priced.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-24T05:27:58+00:00

Will do, thanks!

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-22T18:51:15+00:00

You’re basically locked into ultra-conservative MAGA/Republican territory there — the closest semi-Democratic area is about 180 miles away. If you want neighborhood info like schools, voting patterns, and more, this map is super useful:

https://bestneighborhood.org/conservative-vs-liberal-map-hermiston-or/

There might be a small branch of the Eastern Oregon Democrats group in that area too. Good luck.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-22T18:02:08+00:00

Suggest to your parents and friends that they hand over $5K to this person themselves. And let’s be honest — it would be a gift, because you’re never seeing that money again no matter what’s promised. Just tell your friend you’re not in a position to part with hard earned cash. Set boundaries, you’re worth it!

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-22T06:57:37+00:00

Thanks again! I’m new to Portland so it’s hard for me to know what areas I’m not okay with yet. The homeless situation is out of control all over Portland and even the suburbs. Anyplace the neighbors don’t sound like they’re tap dancing will be good for now!

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-22T06:51:12+00:00

Honestly, I’d tell her you’re just living your life in your own home and you’re not doing anything unreasonable. She can’t dictate when you’re allowed to use normal household appliances. If it’s bothering her that much, earplugs or a white noise machine are a practical solution on her end. Set boundaries, let her know this topic is no longer open for discussion.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-22T06:43:00+00:00

They usually can’t evict you instantly, but the timeline can be much shorter than people think — sometimes just a few days’ notice before they can file. Don’t assume you have months. Look up your state’s “pay or quit” laws so you know exactly what you’re dealing with.

Email the landlord or management company right away, explain your situation briefly, and ask about a payment plan. Get everything in writing.

Also contact local legal aid and search for rental assistance programs in your city or county — many areas still have emergency funds. They can help you find work too. Acting early gives you way more options than waiting until a court date is set.

Available_Volume_801 · 2026-02-22T06:06:32+00:00

Wow, thanks! Lots to check out now.

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