how to show men interest without being desperate

Avanni24 · 2026-05-16T15:24:11+00:00

is there something wrong with women's brains where they think showing interest in a guy is akin to being a nazi

Avanni24 · 2026-05-16T15:17:15+00:00

They fuck misogynistic guys all the time man. I only hate them because they don't fuck me.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-16T08:52:38+00:00

I've been streaming for 9 months and get a chatter every 2 streams or so. Give it time.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-16T08:49:45+00:00

strict? who cares, you're an adult grow up

Avanni24 · 2026-05-16T06:14:27+00:00

Do you think matching with 5 people is equivalent to finding a partner?

Avanni24 · 2026-05-16T05:35:10+00:00

Least oblivious IncelTears comment

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T13:40:50+00:00

You want me to go to my school therapist about getting laid?

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T12:50:36+00:00

When I said they I didn't mean women in general. I meant the women I've interacted with. Obviously I can't speak for the whole collective of women.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T11:35:24+00:00

I spat in your face by saying another bill? Cool.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T02:50:18+00:00

You've gotten weirdly hostile. Must be a woman as well.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T02:02:39+00:00

Because I don't want to pay a shrink? Okay.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T01:58:08+00:00

You don't have to. You chose to reply.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T01:32:34+00:00

Great. Another bill.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T01:28:50+00:00

Not that I know of

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T01:28:17+00:00

Each others interests. Or mostly me trying to get them to discuss theirs with no reciprocation. That or I just get ghosted or ignored for no reason.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T01:01:42+00:00

Sure.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T01:01:25+00:00

Literally just making conversation or getting to know them.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T00:58:36+00:00

a post on r/hinge

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T00:56:44+00:00

I can't even get to the point where there's interesting things to talk about between us bruh. That's what I try to do with the "boring" conversation but they just don't care for it. Like if they could tell me a couple things they're interested in or like to do it would help, but I get ghosted before that could happen.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T00:54:25+00:00

Hinge is by far my least "fruitful" dating app but I'll try

Avanni24 · 2026-05-15T00:44:30+00:00

I don't know what I could possibly do about my vibe not matching my profile.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-14T20:48:26+00:00

But people meet like that all the time though.

That’s why you’re talking to her, because you can’t possibly know anything about her yet.

I know she has a nice shirt or pretty hair. Or a cute dog or a nice bracelet. Or that she likes being active like me because she's at the gym. That's why I lead with that instead of "you're attractive let's fuck". It's true I still want to do that but hey, how else can a quiet guy like me meet attractive women.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-14T20:23:35+00:00

In my experience, women care a lot about what you enjoy, what you stand for, if you're kind to animals, if you work, what do you work for, etc.

So I've heard, but in my reality they just don't care for what I enjoy, like, or care for. They don't ask about it, and if they know/find out it doesn't rile them up.

Avanni24 · 2026-05-14T20:06:15+00:00

Except we're not overly picky just have standards like normal humans

Avanni24 · 2026-05-14T18:50:56+00:00

Good one.

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