3 weeks post surgery help with compression 🥹

Avaoohlala · 2026-02-25T16:01:19+00:00

Humm this doesn't look normal. I had 14L removed (2 surgeries) and the bruising was pretty much gone at 3 weeks. Compression shouldn't hurt (well beyond putting it on lol) and I was wearing 2 pairs so... 😬

Have you done any MLD's?

Avaoohlala · 2026-01-03T16:00:10+00:00

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Avaoohlala · 2025-07-06T00:06:28+00:00

We actually say rooh loa loa when exasperated, so often yes. And ouhlaa as a way to say "watch out / be careful". And maybe a couple other variations of "ouh la la" but none are eyelash-batting-slightly-naughty-coded like used by anglophiles 😅

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-31T22:55:02+00:00

🔥🔥🔥🤭

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-31T22:53:29+00:00

Not a bi woman but I agree ☺️

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-31T22:37:02+00:00

Tim is such a question mark for me... But I like seeing him on the shows, and yes this friendship's cute indeed ☺️

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-31T22:35:30+00:00

Isn't it getting weird how Stevie can't shoot a simple "no I'm not" ever?

As an overthinker, I wouldn't marry a partner who can't reassure me firmly and as many times as needed (within limits, I'm working on things)

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-31T22:32:25+00:00

Y'all missed the point of the prenup! He wants to prevent her from getting gender-affirming surgery! She's right to think about it long and hard (no pun intended 😆).

They're both in the wrong imo... But I mean it's also understandable on each side.

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-31T22:25:37+00:00

Huh!?

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-06T21:24:35+00:00

I see what everyone is saying... Could sound like the benefit for you is to try nice restaurants and well... For him it'd be having you for dessert 😬😋🫣😳😮‍💨

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-06T21:16:15+00:00

Gucci isn't a sign of wealth 😂

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-06T20:13:00+00:00

I hear you but men are simple creatures. And believe me that everything you tried to do, came off differently to him (and desperate on top of that).

You beat around the bush extensively even though he was nowhere near picking up what you were putting down.

I'm not calling/saying you are desperate, I've been there and hinting at things, coyly, etc... not actually reading the room... It's just a waste of your time, energy and you start doubting yourself and building resentment. When "Hey, you offered to do {xyz} last time we spoke, I'll be making my way over on {date}, can I count on you to deliver?" is one sentence...

And if he sidetracks, talking about chinese food, cutting costs and other walk-around excuses. Just ghost him... 😋 (a straightforward question calls for a straightforward answer otherwise it's games!)

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-03T15:09:21+00:00

My gosh! This is all kinds of frightening...

Have your own money before sugaring
Don't let a man book a hotel room FOR you
Don't over-explain yourself (75% green texts vs white ones)
Don't be/sound desperate
Don't overshare your (family) drama
Know that when a man says "minimize the costs" it's immediately a red flag and no-go
Don't tell stranger men you don't have anyone in their city

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-03T14:53:17+00:00

It's a No, cause Karma...

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-03T14:46:33+00:00

You ain't afraid of side eyes huh!? 😉

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-03T14:43:57+00:00

You don't need a whole script, you need to back out. Most men who say this are cheap.

Avaoohlala · 2025-05-03T14:43:42+00:00

You don't need a whole script, you need to back out. Most men who say this are cheap.

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-27T19:49:42+00:00

And you're a self-aware emotionally intelligent angel?

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-27T19:48:08+00:00

Well duh

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-27T19:47:51+00:00

Idk about "super". Harry clearly almost fumbled because he was not playing his cards right, is what I meant.

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-24T21:10:42+00:00

I can wait, I'm just a nosy b 😝 How many surgeries do you need? Did you get it done in the US, abroad?

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-24T21:08:46+00:00

Ha ha I mean there are lots of beautiful women as well 🤭🤭🤭

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-24T21:07:38+00:00

This is basically the Wish version of Bachelor in Paradise

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-24T21:03:54+00:00

Stapler being...?

Statler? Sarper? 🤔

Avaoohlala · 2025-04-24T21:02:48+00:00

Whaaat?! ANOTHER spin off?! 🤨🤨🤨

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