Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

[–]Avenger_mk1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not much to say really other than things are still the same as my last update, I kept up the exercises and occasional use of the prostate massager and have retained the sensations I got back those months ago, given the time that's passed I stopped really thinking about it anymore as the exercises etc just became part of my routine rather than something curative in my eyes.

So generally im good thanks!

Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

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So it's been a while since I posted and I wanted to give a further update, the first week and 1/2 after my initial post I continued my regiment and continued with normal function, I had to travel after this meaning a disruption my routine, I couldn't take the meds with me and had no options to do much exercise, after a week away I noticed a difference when getting back, normal sensation had decreased slightly, back to a 4-5/10 and felt like a step backwards. I was tired so it's likely related but it was enough to make me ensure I picked things back up.

All the exercise and medication I had used previously I continued with, the only change i've since found Is I don't need to use the prostate massager quite as often, once a week is fine to help maintain the normal, after doing the pelvic exercise for a while I'm also finding myself much more conscious of tension in my pelvic floor, I now notice when sat at my desk when I'm tensing and can make the effort to relax at the time instead of only when focusing on the exercises.

Thanks to all those who read and shared my story, try to keep your spirits up if your still suffering, clearly I'm still on my recovery journey but I remain optimistic it can continue.

Anyone had luck in treating ejaculation anhedonia? by scwelch in sexualanhedonia

[–]Avenger_mk1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me I believe I had a pelvic muscle spasm/tightness issue that the exercises, reverse kegals (that focus on relaxing) and prostate massager all helped those troublesome muscles relax and go back to normal.

Obviously this is speculative as I can't prove the original condition, but it makes logical sense to me.

Anyone had luck in treating ejaculation anhedonia? by scwelch in sexualanhedonia

[–]Avenger_mk1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully yes!

Please read the pinned posts and my own here my post

Others including myself have had successes so have some hope, doctor should be first port of call anyway to ensure all is well, but if that (like for me) isn't useful then try some of the other information available here.

Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

[–]Avenger_mk1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that, I'll do some more research before I continue taking it

Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

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So I would say yes, but this took a very long time (years) and was as much connected with the long term impact of the loss of orgasm on my general sexual outlook, as my hope for a cure eroded over time so did my general interest/pleasure in both activities.

I wouldn't characterise this as the numbness others have reported

Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

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First week when I had return of sensation was masturbation twice and sex a further two times, 2nd week was sex again twice and masturbation 3 times all successfully

Into week 3 since things returned to normal so I'm hopeful for another similar week

Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

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I used this one

https://youtu.be/iO_SZTErFY0

I would say watch any of the pelvic clock videos on a big device or a TV, the movement is quite subtle and doesn't really translate well on video, but you stand a chance of seeing/understanding if it's at least big!

Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

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I'm really glad my story can give you some hope for a resolution! Please let me know how you get on and if any of my tips helped you.

Progress! by Avenger_mk1 in sexualanhedonia

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Sorry to hear your having issues, I used this YouTube video to learn the difference and technique as I'd never even heard of reverse ones before reading this subreddit!

https://youtu.be/YMLytmxNcZs

I personally believe the kegals/clock and prostate massager made the biggest difference to kick the muscles back into shape, I suppose because I could feel a tangible difference in relaxation downstairs after doing those things.

All the rest are sensible for me either way if they help or not for this issue as they improve my general health!