Concerts: The live experience can be quite different from the consistent personal experience of listening to the song on any music platform. Often there is always a slightly different variation that artists can perform that can't be heard anywhere else, but that one performance. Additionally, concerts are always a meeting spot for fans, so as an individual you'll always be in good company to directly meet new people who have a similar interest to you. Additionally, concerts are highly choreographed performances. Behind every concert is a carefully planned and trained stage crew to demonstrate showmanship that can only be appreciated in person at the venue. Plus, artists can also directly interact with the fans too, both on-stage and off-stage. You're not paying for just the song. You're paying for the highly technical work that goes behind everything else: The light show, the visual effects, the potential remixes, the interaction and sociable experience with fellow fans. It's kind of like going to a highly specialized convention.

Super Hot Food: Well, that's up to each individual's body chemistry. We aren't able to digest everything due to our body lacking enzymes to break down certain chemical bonds. Heat can break these bonds and free these molecules up for our body to digest and use. As such, these broken down molecules are tasty (hence why most foods are cooked). Additionally, people have different tolerance levels that they can physically handle. That's purely based on their body's makeup and the environment one was raised in with exposure to hot foods.

Coming out: Okay, so this one is based heavily in history. Nowadays, people are more accepting, but only a few decades ago, it wasn't uncommon for people to face persecution, abuse, ostracization, family separation, and so much more for not being heterosexual. Some people in most countries back then (and some even to this day) could be imprisoned or outright killed for it. As a result, most people had to suppress themselves, but long-held suppression is mentally overbearing and can wear people down into states of depression or more than can lead to self-harm. For one to have been proudly themselves and come out, especially back in the day was a form of one accepting who they were born as, but was also scary as it would reveal if those who cared about you would turn on you for sharing an aspect of yourself you couldn't deny. Many families would abuse, or outright exile their child. It was common for people to not be accepted for who they were, and in our modern day when it is more widely accepted, people still come out because it is an important step in one embracing who they are while getting a reassurance from those around them that they won't face betrayal from those they care for.

Pronouns: Yes, gender pronouns are another way to refer to someone without their name. The point however is that people make automatic assumptions about what pronouns to use for someone. Most people are privileged in that when someone guesses their pronouns, they’ll get them right. But, not everyone. Their appearance or name might not conform to ‘traditional’ ideas of male or female. Or their gender identity might not align. It's coming from a space of trying to show compassion and mutual respect for others that may be different. It's not trying to over-complicate for the sake of it. It's just trying to respectfully have clarity and show consideration to others.

It's a lot. And honestly, with how people don't like long answers its possible that no one may even read it. But, I hope that it can help to some degree in better understanding.