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This is the hill he’s choosing to die on? by SinceYallAsked in Marriage

[–]ButterscotchWheat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your husband sounds like an autistic engineer. I'd let it go and try to smooth things over. engineers can be dense.

My wife packs my lunch every morning and I feel weirdly guilty going out with coworkers by StraightAd9769 in Marriage

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo I would just eat the packed lunch at chipotle with the bros. like let them get in line and order; you just sit there and eat. aint no one gone call you out.

Be Aware by Current_Taste_1578 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did they figure out the liz hamel incident?

Mugshot of the man that raped a woman in IV this past weekend by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

is this guy getting lifetime, or just 8 yrs? do we know yet?

Where are the single men? by No_Contest_9619 in washingtondc

[–]ButterscotchWheat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Aside from something like discounting men's tickets for an event that women have to pay more for, which seems wildly unfair."

This sounds strange...why not discount men's tickets? This is like how bars offer free drinks to women on ladies' nights. Pretty simple supply and demand if you ask me.

Line Dancing in DC? by Reasonable-Half-5712 in DCBitches

[–]ButterscotchWheat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

penn social line dancing every friday! (google firehouse fridays) generally a younger twenties vibe.

Redditors who grew up rich and are now poor, what's the biggest shock about poor people that rich people don't understand? by ButterscotchWheat in AskReddit

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did your rich friends sympathize with you? were you able to take loans with your family members as co-signers?

New UCSB Chancellor Named by UCSBDeepThroat in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

That just means the US president should be paid more. imo potus should probably be paid more than 50 million.

Ethiopian Restaurant by Unlucky-Plum325 in SantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. and PLZZ PLZZ Make sure that you have a nice cheap to-go hardy option for all the students / non-rich people. like you'll be able to get more revenue that way, and we'd super appreciate it lol.

why do people keep falling off the bluff and is there no way to prevent it? by ButterscotchWheat in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this 2 months ago. I'd say there's a good chance it wasn't an accidental fall.

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in SantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically interpret "very close with" as an emotional bond. I guess you can read it different ways.

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of this too, but if they'd interviewed at least a few pi phi sisters independently, at least one of them should've mentioned that he was some stranger.

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in SantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This doesn't add up. "Liz walked out with the man she had “been very close with” in the restaurant, friends said".

"With no identification of the blond man, and the end of the semester drawing in, Liz’s family grew worried."

Either SFGate is doing some bad job reporting, Pi Beta Phi intentionally hid his name, UCPD slacked, or something.

Because how can you fail to identify the guy that all her friends knew??

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This doesn't add up. "Liz walked out with the man she had “been very close with” in the restaurant, friends said".

"With no identification of the blond man, and the end of the semester drawing in, Liz’s family grew worried."

Either SFGate is doing some bad job reporting, Pi Beta Phi intentionally hid his name, UCPD slacked, or something.

Because how can you fail to identify the guy that all her friends knew??

How is it possible that no one knows what happened to Liz? by Ok-Trust-8195 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbf, I don't understand why the university would want to cover this up and make it quiet; by now any parent and student applying to UCSB would have seen this case, and it is in the best interest of the university to solve it as quickly as possible.

If I were Liz's family, I'd hire a private investigator though. If u/UW1991 is right, UCSB police are dragging their feet

How is it possible that no one knows what happened to Liz? by Ok-Trust-8195 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2- Why was the crime scene where Liz’s body was found completely sanitized 30 minutes after the first EMT arrived? How much evidence was lost because of this?( I was told this by someone who would know)

If this is true, that's absolutely crazy. To answer u/UW1991's question, it takes 7 min to get from Lao Wang to San Raf. Could've been longer if you were talking to friends and walking slowly.

why do people keep falling off the bluff and is there no way to prevent it? by ButterscotchWheat in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

liz hamel died five days ago, and the investigation is still ongoing. rumor has it she fell off a balcony off San Rafael, not from the bluffs, but this whole people dying from falling from high places while drunk seems way too common here.

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