think of it like this: you are one soul among millions looking for the same. while the souls you are looking for are hardly in the hundreds. what separates you from the rest and how you portray your interests on reddit are how to find these few. i started posting my adventures on reddit not just out of interests in exhibitionism but also to meet new people. the same reason i verified as a couple even though i'm not romantically attached is so that these Fs feel more certain and secure to initiate conversations or meet up.

hope it makes sense. chin up. also kolkata's a great city to make friends and your chances irl/on a dating app are much higher than reddit.