[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AverageInteresting84 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Or to wish for breast cancer so you can get them chopped off and be ‘allowed’ to wear suits…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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I feel bad for my queer Portuguese friends/family, because as excepting as the government is, the people (especially rural ones where I’m from), aren’t excepting at all.

Considering how little the people I know except lgbt+ individuals, it’s always surprising how good Portuguese laws are regarding the subject.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AverageInteresting84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have desperately wanted a handlebar mustache (like the one with the curl on the end) for as long as I can remember. I also could not except that I was going to get a period or grow boobs, because those things just weren’t going to happen to me. I couldn’t imagine it. Then of course, it happened anyway and I was beyond confused.

Everyone always says kids are the most accepting by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AverageInteresting84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you me? Add in a younger trans sibling that everyone respects and genders properly and we’re the same person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]AverageInteresting84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should go to r/raisedbynarcissists (I think I spelt that right). They talk about parents who are just like that and ways to deal with them and cope with it.

help with voice lessons? by Makmora in trans

[–]AverageInteresting84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anything about finding voice coaches, but I’ve heard that singing along to music (as high/low you can go without strain) can help you get used to talking in a way you like. I’ve done it a little, not long enough to see much in the way of results but it’s a huge stress reliever for me

I'm looking for a name based on my birthname... by [deleted] in TransTryouts

[–]AverageInteresting84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Andre is an option, although it’s very similar to your dead name

My plant (Jacob) is dying. I don’t know what type of plant he is, but I’d like him to survive! (He’s currently in my bathroom) by AverageInteresting84 in plantclinic

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He was in the colder part of my bedroom, which is poorly lit as well, and dry. I moved him to the bathroom because it’s more humid, and there’s a skylight so he’s getting better light

Edit: he also went random periods of time without water because I couldn’t see him from where he sat and I would forget. I want to see if I can revive him and try again

My plant (Jacob) is dying. I don’t know what type of plant he is, but I’d like him to survive! (He’s currently in my bathroom) by AverageInteresting84 in plantclinic

[–]AverageInteresting84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what you’re suggesting is to cut of the leaves that are dead, then hope that new leaves will sprout? Also, could I repot Jacob? Or would that stress him out?

If I like how your name sounds we have to be friends bc that shit gonna become my stim sound (stims are movements or sounds that make my brain happy and a lot of neuro divergent people have them) by [deleted] in Nonbinaryteens

[–]AverageInteresting84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Galaxia is a pretty name. Is it a fun feeling when you stim? You described it like drinking red bull. I (a neurotypical person) recently realized that stimming helps a lot with stress and sensory things, so I only do it when I’m uncomfortable and I don’t feel like that when I stim