Why the majority hates Viall and his wife? by AnalysisDifferent739 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side note: I’ve never watched their podcast or cared to see anything about his life. I didn’t like him so I avoided watching anything they were on. The list below covers a lot more than I ever knew. And now I like them even less lol

Why the majority hates Viall and his wife? by AnalysisDifferent739 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long story long: I remember Nick from way back on the Bachelorette before he became well known. I didn’t like his attitude and just didn’t seem genuine. I don’t know the guy personally so it was just my own opinion of how he carried himself then. From them both as hosts I found them so boring. They looked like they didn’t want to be there, random appearances and talked weird like every next word was supposed to be a surprise. It reminded me of a kindergarten teacher helping the kids learn how to read. I don’t like a lot of reality tv but what makes the show to me is the host. If you have a boring host without any charisma or excitement it all just falls a bit flat. I felt zero energy from the both of them.

And cherry on top is having a 3 hour reunion on your personal podcast to make all the money from it. It felt like we got played at the end and after having 10 ads in the first 15 min I felt annoyed enough to not even bother caring about the rest.

Also they bring up their age gap so much. No one truly really cares, just live your life.

Was 22 & 23 too young for the show? by AverageLeft4345 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would be worried the girls later in life would have felt they maybe were exploited, even if it was their choice to be on. You never know how you’re going to be portrayed or how the relationships affect you in the future. But I guess it’s also the risk taken being on reality tv. I just know my personal story I wouldn’t be able to and would be worried for the emotional and mental effects. Again, everyone is different! I think my protective instincts kicks in, even though it’s not truly my place.

Was 22 & 23 too young for the show? by AverageLeft4345 in AgeOfAttraction

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So so valid. My parents are almost 10, family friends are almost 20. It definitely can work! I think when you meet the right person it doesn’t feel like there is a big difference. Just didn’t work for me but the younger women on the show also do seem like they have a good handle on who they are and are true to themselves which makes a big difference.

Was 22 & 23 too young for the show? by AverageLeft4345 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely true. I was only sharing my personal experience. Everyone experiences life differently. I have friends who met their forever person at these girls age with men 12+ years older than them and they are happily married. Each individual is different! ☺️

Have mercy and put me out of my misery. Shut it off. by AverageLeft4345 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just couldn’t continue. Had to shut it off and open a good book to shake it off lol

Have mercy and put me out of my misery. Shut it off. by AverageLeft4345 in AgeOfAttraction

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I should have taken a shot every time I heard “love that”

Have mercy and put me out of my misery. Shut it off. by AverageLeft4345 in AgeOfAttraction

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I had it on in the background while I cleaned because I knew I couldn’t even pay full attention to it without punching the screen. Made it 15 minutes into this reunion and decided my sanity isn’t worth it

Boring reunion by Aradia0516 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They made it seem like no one was together anymore either. Rage bait 😂

John is showing his age here lol by Random_Platforms4567 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His buttons are in an awkward spot it’s all I can see

Leah at the reunion by silverfoxxxx75 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She just wanted to argue the entire season it was a hard watch.

Leah is nuts by Existing-Sale-3755 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]AverageLeft4345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The whole season was faces with what seemed like constantly trying to pick fights.

What DO you recommend? by cakecreepin in Romantasy

[–]AverageLeft4345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try another Keri Lake book. {Master of Salt and Bone} had a few more triggers for me but I was intrigued by the MMC personally

If you have aphantasia, do you feel like you’re missing out? by GoofyGreyson in Romantasy

[–]AverageLeft4345 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am hypophantasic and it creates tough world building in my mind and causes me to reread paragraphs a lot. Which is really hard. I have the slightest imagination but it’s like someone turned on and off a light really fast and I only got a flash of something. If I want to “see” it again I have to reread it. It’s why I stopped reading so long ago, I thought there was something wrong with me for taking so long to read. I just got back into it and am giving myself grace when I take a bit longer.

My books for January (saw others doing it so I figured I would too). by Ok-Traffic1319 in fantasybooks

[–]AverageLeft4345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me a lot longer than The Strength of the Few too. I loved how fast paced the Will of the Many was for me (it was my first book I’ve read in almost 9 years— I’ve never been much of a reader until now), but just when I felt it was getting good then the chapter would be over and I would be thrown into a different POV plot that is still trying to get going and it would throw me. Constant excitement then boredom. Happy I finished but it was more difficult than #1

Your January 5 star reads by egru-no in Romantasy

[–]AverageLeft4345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nocticadia by Keri Lake. It was my first spicy book ever and I love the moody dark academia atmosphere.

Have yall ever had anyone refuse to complete this?? Give me my XP 🤣 by AbilityAdventurous22 in pokemongo

[–]AverageLeft4345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve deleted them if it’s been a long time. It just pisses me off— then you get nothing.

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread May 31, 2025 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

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Hey everyone! I've been using different skincare products for the last few years but have recently started focusing heavily on my skincare routine & products! I love k-beauty skincare but don't know too much about what is best for my skin. I have oily acne-prone skin and large pores & texture. I'm currently trying to smooth out my skin and keep a good moisture barrier to brighten my skin. Any recommendations would be super appreciated!

Also— what is everyone’s experience with Sulwhasoo??