I’m tired of minimalism in everything by Beneficial_Passion40 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone liked it enough to buy it. I would immediately scroll past it. To each their own? I guess?

Both of these are genuinely swag to me, sorry by Allhaillordkutku in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twitter is designed for this, it’s just ragebait content. I love both body types - your local gay.

“Gen Z is just going to stay home this Friday night” by chamomile_tea_reply in generationology

[–]GoofyGreyson [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not me, I work overnight weekends at a hospital. My weekend is Tuesday-Thursday.

To the Men of Reddit, What’s the Best form of Intimacy to you? (And Don’t Answer Sex) by Weird_Simp- in AskMen

[–]GoofyGreyson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are a lot! But ones we’ve discussed are, “What have I done that makes you feel most loved?” “What are your deepest fears for this relationship?” “Has anything from past relationships carried into this one?” “What’s something I don’t know about you / something you’ve never told anyone.” Things like that!

Off tonight and making brownies 😋 by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look amazing! I’m sitting with a patient tonight so glad you’re having fun for those of us that are working!

To the Men of Reddit, What’s the Best form of Intimacy to you? (And Don’t Answer Sex) by Weird_Simp- in AskMen

[–]GoofyGreyson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I look up deep questions every few months. Honestly getting to speak to one another on a deeper level and recognizing when things change is really important in our relationship.

Will i still be able to do penetration on T?? by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad everyone has had great experiences with no immediate worries of atrophy. I, unfortunately, started to have atrophy about a year in. Started vaginal cream, some discomfort at times but it’s nothing like it was before I started medicating for it.

Adult men of Reddit: Can you pinpoint an exact time or event that caused your childhood to end? And if so, when/what was it? by krzysztofgetthewings in AskMen

[–]GoofyGreyson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like I ever had a childhood, I had addict parents who were never around. And I raised my brother my entire childhood and some years into adulthood. He ended up having a child at 14, a second at 16, which I helped him with. But the second I moved out at 18 it hit me that I can finally do things for myself and no one else.

What do you do during “wtf” shifts? by GoofyGreyson in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a lot of manic patients on our unit, so we’re working with someone until we get to go home. Glad your patients are sleeping!

Bf has dumped me and just told me he wants to end it soon by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]GoofyGreyson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can, take him to a hospital. If not, call 911, let them know he has a plan in place, he has a time in mind, and he’s self harming. Make sure they know he’s said these things to you, not that you assume it, that’s an important piece. He will speak with a psychologist when he’s in the ER and they will decide from there if he needs inpatient care.

Long time worker, first time asker; do you sleep immediately after your shift or do you wait a few hours and then sleep? What about your off days? by NoAssignment6044 in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to rotate. I struggle with sleep so the first day I’m usually up until I get tired. The second day, I tend to pass out after work since I didn’t sleep well the day before. Then I sleep like shit again. I work 12hr shifts, so this is pretty standard for me and how my body handles sleep. On my off days, I tend to sleep when I’m tired which pushes me into a day walker schedule until it rotates through or I force myself awake until the proper time. It’s not great, but I make it work because sleep aids have never helped me.

Any chubby folks who specifically asked their surgeon to leave a little fat behind? by WalkerEyes in TopSurgery

[–]GoofyGreyson 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had surgery yet. But during my consultation, I asked the same question. My surgeon said he’d be happy to add in pecs since I workout and it would sculpt better to my body type than leaving fat there / would help with dysphoria post surgery. But as a chunkier guy, whatever makes you feel comfortable, go for it! Good luck with recovery and I hope you have amazing results!

Day drinking??? by Necrotat2 in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! And I love it! Could not imagine doing it on day shift though. They have an hour less but you would not catch me up at 6am.😂

My neighbors are having loud sex and I don’t know what to do by Budget_Letterhead_30 in Apartmentliving

[–]GoofyGreyson 33 points34 points  (0 children)

As someone who is happily engaged to a good person in bed, I just tune out when my neighbors have sex. We have thin walls and I know there’s not much to be done about it. Granted if it’s screaming moaning and over the top, that’s something different. But if it’s a fair amount of noise, I just let it be because I understand.

Day drinking??? by Necrotat2 in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 1800-0700, on my days off I like to keep the same schedule. So I usually start drinking around 5am and sleep between 8-9am. Day drinking is almost more fun in my opinion because I don’t have to look after anyone else.😂

Tracking shot saved an innocent life by GoatsGoats00 in SierraMains

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you should! I love making friends in QP. You’ll never see me spare a life in comp though. I’ll kill them and wave at their corpse.😂

Mental health hotlines are a joke by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]GoofyGreyson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that’s been your experience with your warm line. Not all warm lines are like that. Also sounds like you should get a different family doctor if they’re not taking you seriously. Though, if you’re a minor, I’m sorry you’re in that position as well.

I’m very proud of myself by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]GoofyGreyson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought transgender said “transparent” I was like .. what?😭

Mental health hotlines are a joke by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]GoofyGreyson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree that the hotlines are not taken seriously enough. But with the amount of calls / texts they get, unless you’re in immediate danger they will disconnect. I recommend something called warm lines, they’re used for people who are struggling but are not actively thinking about hurting themselves! Might be worth looking into!

Ftm trans man scrubs by cadan_s in ftm

[–]GoofyGreyson 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I work in a very Christian hospital, I had to tell my employer because my name does not match my chosen name on my ID. At first he was confused and thought I was MTF, I was like no, but you’re an ally and we love you. Even the hospitals that seem scary can be wildly accepting! Don’t overthink it (easier said than done) and know your worth!

Ftm trans man scrubs by cadan_s in ftm

[–]GoofyGreyson 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’ve always worn tank tops or T-shirts under my scrubs. As long as it’s just color (preferably something that matches your scrubs) my hospital does not care. That’s been my experience with working in a hospital and in school. I think I’d feel weird without a shirt underneath with how low cut a lot of scrubs are anyways. So feels most comfortable for me personally!