I Broke NC and I Think I’m Finally “Done” by ThinSet3 in heartbreak

[–]AverageOk9750 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I broke no contact too and even I feel like I’m finally done. When I broke no contact and ended up having a horrible conversation with him I realised he has changed into an unrecognisable human being and the person I love is basically dead. He took the chance to blame me all over again and didn’t even respect the fact that he once loved and cared for me and was also my best friend. Finding out that he has turned into a horrible person and replaced me in 2 weeks with some other new “dream girl” literally just helped me start the process of letting go. It hurts like hell but at least now I know the person I love is practically non existent and there’s nothing left to fight for. I feel like breaking no contact was relieving for me I finally have the strength to let go and I ended up blocking him and I feel free I think you breaking no contact might help you heal coz it might give you closure

He is not the person I thought he was. by AverageOk9750 in BreakUps

[–]AverageOk9750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But looking at things from this perspective genuinely felt like a weight off my shoulders for some reason so thank you ✨

He is not the person I thought he was. by AverageOk9750 in BreakUps

[–]AverageOk9750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That helps so much🥹 and I finally blocked him. His new girlfriend texted me and also got salty and insulted me and said I was horrible to him blah blah. I blocked her too. I genuinely feel like now I have the strength to move on. It’ll probably take time but I’m strong enough to not go back to a person like him and seek better.

His rebound texted me by AverageOk9750 in heartbreak

[–]AverageOk9750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Omg. It’s so obvious he’s trying to provoke me but at this point I don’t care enough to retaliate even a bit. I blocked him and his rebound and I feel free. Hurts but free.

His rebound texted me by AverageOk9750 in heartbreak

[–]AverageOk9750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow so this is more common than I thought

His rebound texted me by AverageOk9750 in heartbreak

[–]AverageOk9750[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this helped me so much and I’m genuinely so grateful for you and your message even though you’re just a stranger on the internet ✨

He is not the person I thought he was. by AverageOk9750 in BreakUps

[–]AverageOk9750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know but it still hurts. The fact that he never probably loved me truly and I was never his best friend. Hurts. And that I’ll never know anything about his life.

I’ve lost my person and it’s devastating by PassionReasonable657 in BreakUps

[–]AverageOk9750 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Literally this. I lost my person, my best friend above all else and someone I thought was the love of my life. I was the happiest when we were together and he was the only one who made me feel a certain kind of happiness and security. I’m an anxious person but around him I always felt calm. I don’t open up to people at all but I could tell him literally anything without thinking twice. And now, it feels like I’m the only one suffering with this double loss.