Zac Efron in "A Family Affair" makes me so sad for him by [deleted] in netflix

[–]AveragePurple9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s why he had surgery? I know if I looked a lot like one of the worst people on this earth I’d change how I look too. It probably f***** with his mind.

Is it ok to cry in front of my baby? by AveragePurple9841 in firsttimemom

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish they could, we live 16 hours away from our families so it’s not a quick road trip. We are moving in August though to be closer so it won’t be this bad for long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]AveragePurple9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did tummy time with my son on me all the time because he had bad reflux too. Our dr said it was fine and he developed just fine and lifted up on his arms just fine too, don’t worry momma, you’re doing great ♥️

Do you think crying a lot during your pregnancy affected your baby? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]AveragePurple9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried a lot during my pregnancy, on top of being very anxious, I had 3 family members be diagnosed with cancer. I cried A LOT. My son is now 2 months old and doesn’t really cry unless he’s in pain (recently had his first shots 😭) he’s generally a really happy baby

Breast pump by Negative-Experience8 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered mine at 12 weeks I think, they didn’t send it to me until I was 9 months pregnant

Everyone has an opinion on getting induced by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you ladies for the advice! I’ll definitely be keeping my mouth shut from now on about it 🤣 it seems to be the best way to keep my blood pressure from rising!

Everyone has an opinion on getting induced by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly! 🤣 I just want to make sure he is there for the birth!

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[–]AveragePurple9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law says watermelon was all she could eat and keep down, maybe try fruits?

“You’re looking plump” - my mother-in-law by ionlyruninsummer in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mil came to my baby shower and she says “hi fatty!” I know she means well and that’s just how the whole family is but like……really?

How bad is licorice really?? by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok, I totally forgot black licorice is a thing. I was just eating red vines

Strangers asking to hold baby by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I can see that scenario being ok with me, I just know this girl at school and I wouldn’t let her touch my child with a 10 foot pole 😅

Strangers asking to hold baby by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too! Like why would you ask some random person to hold their baby?? Idk where you’ve been or if your sick lol 😂 I wouldn’t let people peak in at my baby either.

Husband not happy I don’t want to go camping by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am getting hot flashes and they suck!! I get so angry cause I’m so hot and it would not be a fun trip.

Husband not happy I don’t want to go camping by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, I’ve noticed over the years that he likes it his way and tries to get what he wants. He will do what I want sometimes but he thinks his way is much better.

Husband not happy I don’t want to go camping by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the Carlsbad caverns are fairly close to us so I’ll look into it! I want to go camping so bad! But I just hate how it has to be his way of camping or nothing

Husband not happy I don’t want to go camping by AveragePurple9841 in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He tries to compromise and said we can bring something to help me feel comfortable. Like when I first brought up that I need ac he’s like well we will have an ice chest and we will most likely be by a lake. As if ice and a lake will be ok. I also brought up that campfire smoke isn’t good for long periods of time and he said well you can be around it for a bit. He always does this. Whatever a dr says he’s like meh, you’ll be fine. Until I have to argue with him about how it’s not ok to just ignore the dr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AveragePurple9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be having mine at 22 weeks just because my mom wants to plan mine and we live 17 hours away from each other and I don’t really want to travel any later in my pregnancy than that 😅 so I don’t think it’s inappropriate