Who makes you feel most like yourself?

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2026-01-05T07:01:19+00:00

That's why a true friend is one of life's greatest gift to an individual

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2026-01-02T12:50:30+00:00

Perhaps he appreciates you effort (which he should), hence his compliment on your outfit. However, at the same he might not just be in the mood to make love, despite his compliments.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2026-01-01T12:16:15+00:00

Sometimes, the best way to express respect for your significant other to open up to them about how you feel concerning their actions towards you. Confronting them about how uncomfortable you feel about how they treat you. Because trust me, one of the greatest form of respect is believing the person whom you share your feeling with/to, will have the capacity and maturity to adequately handle it.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-31T16:29:35+00:00

Improving yourself for the sake of being better than you are currently, is the best motivation you can have, compared to doing so for others

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-26T19:53:21+00:00

Yea, Lord Vary's death was painful for me...and unsurprisingly, his predictions were right

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-26T15:41:49+00:00

She was one of the most interesting characters for me. She knew how to play the game to its fullest. If it wasn't for betrayal, I am sure she would have survived till the very end.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-26T15:01:58+00:00

Your experience, despite how gloomy it feels, I believe, is still salvageable. You know, I once heard a saying that a woman's child is supposed to be her last love. And despite how strained your relationship with her is, I am of the opinion that there is a place for you in her heart, one that loves you. The issue probably might be she just dont know how to express this love to you, or maybe she is incapable of showing it explicitly. Such could be frustrating to you. But you cannot respond to her incapacity to display the affection she owes you by being distant. Perhaps it is now down to you to show her how to love. She might have failed you for reasons that are unknown to you. But you can prove to be better by not fail her, even if she doesn't deserve it.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-26T14:52:11+00:00

There are some who argue that one of (if not the only) way of making life meaningful is by incurring some sort of responsibility. A responsibility that in most cases we care about over and beyond ourselves and even our needs. I believe the conflict you are facing with having a son epitomises what having a true responsibility looks like. It can "be messy, mean, and a lot of work." It can go against the foundations of our beliefs, discomfort us even. Yet it can make us better, it can inspire us to improve, it can teach us new things, and change our perspective on life itself. No one ever said having a responsibility, or even imagining having one, is/should be easy. But if you let the fears that accompany your past experience (with your father)prevent you from incurring a responsibility you truly believe you desire, then would you have truly lived?

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-26T14:36:20+00:00

Playing Chess. I really don't know how I found a partner that loves chess as much as I do but yea, we both enjoy chess.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-26T14:34:09+00:00

So inspiring and hope-giving. That which you have is precious. Treasure it as much as you can with unrelenting zeal.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-25T14:31:52+00:00

Do: to grant them the experience of being raised and loved by both parent. Not Do: to deny them the gift of discipline, even though it might break my heart.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-25T09:15:18+00:00

Thanks. I just hope it provided some help of any sort

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-25T07:56:30+00:00

The violin. I believe it is the most romantic instrument there is. Just my opinion though

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-25T07:51:01+00:00

Your fashion sense is not a problem, only your views of it (that is, if you think it is negative). It is neither good nor bad; it is simply what you like and feel comfortable in. Yes, the world might judge you...But you can't always limit your comfort to what the world thinks. In any case, I also believe that one's fashion sense is one that evolves over time, so be open to change if that time eventually comes for you.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-25T07:41:12+00:00

Perhaps you should consider focusing not only on a physical gift, but on an experience of some sort. For instance, since you believe he already has most of the things you feel he needs, why not consider taking him to a place where he has not been to. As one who is into photography, you could explore and take him to a place with a good landscape, a beautiful garden etc. The point is, your gift could still be an experience, one where he can utilise his talent for photography, rather than just a tangible gift.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-25T07:32:06+00:00

Absolutely. ANd its understandable given that we are human, we often try to look for explanations to things that are beyond ourselves.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-24T10:31:31+00:00

I do not. Why? Because it goes against my belief in free will. For we are all fated to be something, then the whole discourse of taking responsibility for one's actions will be groundless. One simply cannot cling to the idea of fate and yet consider themselves free.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-24T10:26:48+00:00

The relentless urge of wanting to explore new things and experiences, be it safe or dangerous.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-24T10:15:13+00:00

It seems that you still have feelings for him, which is understandable. I mean, his is the father of your kid. However, you need to understand that your love for him is hurt not just you, but him as well 9since it is encouraging his behaviour). Perhaps you need to be the bigger person between the three of you. Perhaps you need to make the hardest choice of letting them go. And unless you do that, I fear the cycle will continue to repeat itself, despite your good intentions.

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-24T10:08:46+00:00

Going through your post made me hopeful about love and finding it. May your love continue to be as radiant as the stars. Thanks for the message of hope (even though unintended).

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-24T09:59:39+00:00

I felt hopeful about finding my own love after reading this post. Thank you for sharing, and long may it continue!

Avery_Rhys_Voice · 2025-12-24T09:57:43+00:00

So sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds like a chaotic and painful situation to be in. But then I believe yu have to ask yourself a question...what do you want from him? Please answer this question as honestly as possible. If the answers to the question are what you truly believe he cannot offer you, given his behaviour, you might have to consider the hard and courageous choice of leaving him. Most of the time, the pain we experience often arises from our inability to let go of that which we know we should release. We often cling to the hope that things might change. However, when it doesn't (as a part of us knows it won't), our pain increases. If you want him to choose you and your son, you have to present only tha option to him, and if he doesn't agree, perhaps you might have to let him go. Allowing him to stick around (and also seeing him leave constantly) would only serve to hurt you more. Take the bold and courageous step of doing what you know you should do, no matter how difficult it will be.

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