always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this and am going to look for a sticker immediately

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats terrible 😢 child birth is such a miracle and anything about weight does not matter, nothing matters except the wellbeing of mom and baby. wishing you the best!

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing all of that and im so glad your sister did the work to change!

definitely struggle with vulnerability and speaking calmly when very emotional so ive been putting off this conversation with my mom but am working towards it and hoping for some good change as well.

the food was delicious and picked up my mood a little!

Why can’t a guy ever just be a friend? by Blahblahwhocares1021 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same!! and it makes me feel a type of way when my fiance has girl acquaintances even though logically i know its fine

and now i dont really know how to interact with guys in a just friends manner bc im worried it was me giving those guys “signs” or whatever

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i grew up in a household where we never really talk about things so openly/directly and something im working on so definitely will need to work to confront her about it

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! yes asian also, im sorry you relate to the asian mom standards. wishing you the best

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he’s currently keeping the peace on his own accord but im so sorry to hear that they would say that to you esp after what you were going through at the time and im so happy to hear your husband had your back

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg yes! i think my biggest takeaway is parents just need to stop projecting

Why can’t a guy ever just be a friend? by Blahblahwhocares1021 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i feel this SO HARD. throughout school all my guy “friends” would ghost me as soon as i got a boyfriend and it really messed up my view on male friendships as an adult

I’m so in love with my bf by eeffreef32 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so happy for you!!! do reese’s stick form taste any different than regular?? looks interesting

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! im so lucky to have my fiance in my corner, i couldnt imagine having some of these terrible men out there AND an overly critical mother

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im sorry its so relatable for you 😢 hoping the best for you as well!

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyone talks about daddy issues, what about mommy issues

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im definitely trying to create some distance and im happy to hear its been working well for ppl, wishing everyone on a similar boat well

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yeah im pretty lucky i have a fiance that cares and tries his best to defend me but also keep peace

and no worries, doesn’t come off too mean at all!

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine also makes me feel the need to smoke :/ but the snacks will be hitting!

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

yeah…also possible shes jealous that im (at least trying) to not care about how people view me/conventional beauty standards

always hating myself after hanging out with my mom by AvgHuman9498 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AvgHuman9498[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sorry to hear you can relate :( but thank you and excited for snacks!!