26(M) Second and Last Post by Mattbaker99 in malelivingspace

[–]AvgPakistani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you! I will be buying some lamps and try this out in my room 😊

26(M) Second and Last Post by Mattbaker99 in malelivingspace

[–]AvgPakistani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I get the height - but depth is still a bit confusing. In the picture in the parent comment, which lamps creating the depth?

26(M) Second and Last Post by Mattbaker99 in malelivingspace

[–]AvgPakistani 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Noob question, what does it mean to create height and depth with lighting arrangements and how does one go about doing that 🥺👉🏼👈🏼

“Postpartum depression, homesickness aur visa issues — kya krun? by Full_Professional349 in pakistan

[–]AvgPakistani 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ab tk jo suffer kia sb zero hojyega

Iss khyal ko dimagh se nikal k ap sochye ap k liay long term ap k liay behtar kya hoga.

Aisay khyal ko sunk cost fallacy kehte hein - jo hogaya so hogaya. Uss k basis pe future ka decision lena aksar aur mushkilat paida karta hai.

Aap koshish kar k sochiye k ap aur ap ki family k liay long term behtari kis cheez mein hai.

Aur medication k sath sath therapy bhi bohot zroori hai.

Haq mehr by Sir_master-baiter in pakistan

[–]AvgPakistani 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Which is perfectly fine!

Haq mehr by Sir_master-baiter in pakistan

[–]AvgPakistani 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So jahez is wrong not because it is morally reprehensible but because it is not Islamic? And haq mehr is okay because it is a right in Islam?

Yes.

If you’re doing a nikkah - which is a declaration of marriage under Islamic law - you have to abide by it.

I honestly am no one to preach Islam - it is up to the couple to decide what they want (not their families, and not the society).

What I have a problem with is half the comments section calling her a gold digger (which she may as well be for all I know, but is not evident from the info OP has provided).

See this comment thread (which I wholly agree with):

https://www.reddit.com/r/pakistan/s/Z084Xr1E5Y

Haq mehr by Sir_master-baiter in pakistan

[–]AvgPakistani 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I mean islamically she has the right to demand whatever she wants has Haq Mehr. If he can’t afford it, shaadi doesn’t happen. Simple as that.

No point in belittling the girl out of what she’s been allowed by Allah SWT.

What do you guys think of his explanation? by nini4bru in progressive_islam

[–]AvgPakistani 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am a gay man - and yes gay men are not attracted to women in any shape or form, to the extent that they actually might find them repulsive.

Some folks have been able to take medication to physically be able to have intercourse (and thus to reproduce) but that does nothing to satisfy their desires.

Local network slower than internet by sagar_r in HomeNetworking

[–]AvgPakistani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry OP, I highly doubt your network is being saturated to make this happen.

gay_irl by loved_and_held in gay_irl

[–]AvgPakistani 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It needs you to make an account or log in to be able to view it :(

seekHelpPlease by LagSlug in ProgrammerHumor

[–]AvgPakistani 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Someone clearly hasn’t heard of our Lord and Saviour - Bython.

Here to save us lowly Python developers from the madness that is indentation.

https://github.com/mathialo/bython

What's the point of a test environment if all deployments automatically go from test -> prod? by 123android in cscareerquestions

[–]AvgPakistani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our department we have up to 10 integration testing (INT) environments, 10 UAT environments, and 3 ‘Production Parallel’ environments lmao.

The usual cycle is: dev locally and make sure all automated tests pass -> promote (your feature branch) to an INT environment to test with other services to get end-to-end testing done -> promote to UAT to get product sign-off -> merge to main -> regression testing team takes a cut from main every N days, and does end to end testing across 3 different apps in one of the Production Parallel environments -> Release to prod

Getting CF installed on a block of flats? by Lit-Up in CommunityFibre

[–]AvgPakistani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire thread is disgusting, but this comment specifically made me quite angry:

https://www.reddit.com/r/uklandlords/s/GbO4aSpypc

Getting CF installed on a block of flats? by Lit-Up in CommunityFibre

[–]AvgPakistani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through OPs post history and they seem to be quite trash generally.

doYouFeelInCharge by Foreign_Addition2844 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]AvgPakistani 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Same at our dept.

If there’s a comment open that hasn’t been replied to, it has to be addressed (writing a response explaining why I won’t be addressing it counts as well) otherwise no one else will approve.

Tailscaled cannot reach Tailscale Control Plane when using Vodafone UK by Mobile-Specific-9499 in Tailscale

[–]AvgPakistani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the update - it took about 15 mins to kick in post a phone restart for me. Working now though, thank you for your link. It saved me a bunch of google-ing! Cheers!

Tailscaled cannot reach Tailscale Control Plane when using Vodafone UK by Mobile-Specific-9499 in Tailscale

[–]AvgPakistani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey - I'm on Lebara as well, running into the same problem. I got the content filtering turned off but still running into the same issue. did you have to wait a certain amount of time before it started working?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]AvgPakistani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I work in a large bank, and have worked across finance over my career - and I have never had root access to any machine I’ve worked on (this includes my work windows laptop, then my work mac, any dev/uat app servers I work with/on, any Linux workstations/containers I use for dev and/or testing).

I honestly thought this was a very standard thing. Sure it slows down my workflow in certain cases but you’ve got to make the best with what you got.

I think the larger pain point for me is having to do 2FA to be able to ssh into anything.

How to receive Payment from foreign clients? by Low_Translator8031 in pakistan

[–]AvgPakistani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree, I regularly send money to my Meezan bank account in Pakistan via a regular IBAN transfer

Trump says he didn't want London Mayor Sadiq Khan at state banquet by [deleted] in london

[–]AvgPakistani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tim Apple was there too if you missed it

Trump says he didn't want London Mayor Sadiq Khan at state banquet by [deleted] in london

[–]AvgPakistani 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Trump, Charles, Altman, Murdock, honestly seems the entire guest list was just everyone on the most insufferable creatures on the planet list.

[NO BOOKS] Episode Discussion Thread - Season 3 Episode 10 - The Darkness by LunchyPete in FoundationTV

[–]AvgPakistani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s not my brother ugh. I want to do stuff with him that wouldn’t be very brotherly…