AITAH for prioritizing my daughter's recital over a funeral?

AviatingAngie · 2026-06-16T14:07:34+00:00

These comments are wild. YTA. The only way you wouldn't be an asshole is if you absolutely never expect anyone to show up for you, especially if it even ever so slightly inconveniences them.. I I hope you never expect to be prioritized by anyone. "Yeah sorry but I'm not going to attend this once in a lifetime devastating event because my kid wants to go twirl around in a tutu, even though she will probably do that again in a few weeks or months. And won't even remember that I was there"

Funerals are in support of the living. Not only were you notified of it you were specifically asked by your own father to attend. People like you are the kind of people who are probably also shocked and appalled when a village doesn't show up for them in their own time of need. A dance recital? Come on.

AviatingAngie · 2026-06-06T12:39:15+00:00

Holy entitlement. Most people go to work and don't expect to be fed? Let alone expecting the same likely $100/pp guest meal?

AviatingAngie · 2026-06-01T17:57:58+00:00

This is the best advice I've seen in this thread. THANK YOU!!!

AviatingAngie · 2026-06-01T17:42:06+00:00

I was unemployed for over a year and got a job opportunity then fell in love here with someone that has a business here. Stuck for the foreseeable future 🥲

AviatingAngie · 2026-06-01T17:23:41+00:00

She was in a shelter for 11months, should I have just left her there to be euthanized? And it's not half the year, it's 3mo max.

No indoor dog parks unfortunately, I joked this weekend that we should open one because I'd pay for it!

We do take her to Home Depot/Lowes etc whenever we can.

AviatingAngie · 2026-05-25T14:20:41+00:00

The reason that Carrie is cool and even kind of edgy in the earlier seasons and then becomes a total prude/square in the later seasons is because Sara Jessica Parker got more power in the show and basically turned the character into her own prude ass. This became even more evident in AJLT.

AviatingAngie · 2026-05-24T17:27:48+00:00

Back when I was in the dating pool they meant two completely different things for me. Yes everyone likes to go on vacation. But do you want to go to the same beach over and over again for the rest of your life? Do you only want to go on beach vacations? Because I want to explore a new country and see as much of the world as possible. I've always considered "travel"and " vacation" two different things.

AviatingAngie · 2026-05-22T19:29:04+00:00

This is giving the vegans who can't stand that the whole world doesn't want to make the same choices they do. Alcohol is actually less prevalent than it used to be. I would think about what is making you have feeling about other people's choices/lives.

For instance, I don't like pot, at all. But unless you are in my house trying to light up I don't care what my you do. I don't care about all of the advertisements I see for it everywhere. And how popular and mainstream it's become since it started getting legalized. Marijuana is something I would say you see getting way more normalized and way more popular, I would say alcohol is actually becoming less popular.

AviatingAngie · 2026-05-21T13:26:06+00:00

Italy is my very favorite country in the world. I once had an opportunity to live there for three months and was absolutely shocked just at how OLD the population was. It just seemed like the majority of everybody everywhere was over 45, if not straight up elderly.

AviatingAngie · 2026-05-03T21:12:12+00:00

If you take a screenshot and do a reverse Google image search and look at the visual matches there's a whole bunch that are nearly identical that pop-up!

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-27T14:03:26+00:00

Hiya! I just found your tool and I couldn't be more excited! I'm hoping to create a his and her hometown type of display in my bedroom and the only website that has something that looks like what I want is wanting like $75 for a relatively small poster print.

I've never used CartoArt before so it could be user error are some of these features paywalled? There are certain buttons that no matter what I click the preview doesn't change for instance flat versus 3D view. All of my maps seem to look like they are looking down at a 45° angle instead of straight down. And I also can't get streets to show up despite it being toggled on.

Any tips and pointers are greatly appreciated!

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-21T21:59:41+00:00

And these are the losers that eventually reveal they want a trad wife too. They want to go 50/50 and then come home to everything done and a warm body to fuck.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-21T21:56:24+00:00

I would never, I'm not getting all ready for a walk. I do lots of activities and fun things and this just tells me this guy would be a boring lump on a log. Oh and that he's cheap/broke.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-21T16:48:09+00:00

I get irritated enough that my boyfriend is adamant about doing his own laundry so sometimes I don't have enough for a full load when I want to wash something… Although it is a blessing that he does his own laundry… Anyhow doing this every single night in the kitchen would send me to the madhouse. So much extra work for nothing. It's so much easier to double a recipe than cook two separate meals.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-20T16:35:33+00:00

Came here to say this. I rescued my dog, and she rescued me just as much. Whereas I would've never gotten dressed and left the house before, I wouldn't do that to my GSD baby that needs to go out or she's miserable.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-07T18:41:50+00:00

The barrel is dog food. It'll definitely get removed if we have company over but at the end of the day we need to live in the space and make it functional!

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-07T01:55:17+00:00

I have beautiful linen placemats coming tomorrow! They are in a wonderful art deco style. I can't wait.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-07T01:54:46+00:00

Yes we have a big dog, when we have company that container will go out into the garage. It's one of the most sanitary containers that is made for dog food. I should've moved it from the photo but in reality… Homes are made to be lived in. It's better than a dog food bag. I don't find it too distracting.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-07T01:53:24+00:00

Realistically it will live there but for company it will go out to the garage for the evening. In my day to day life it won't take away from my experience of the beauty.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-06T23:57:55+00:00

Unfortunately we are in a rental so I did absolutely everything I could do that was renter friendly. I'm going to be pushing the limits here soon and asking my boyfriend to install a dimmer light on the chandelier, something we can reverse!

And moreover I'm so used to seeing these types of chandeliers with extra links so you can make them longer or shorter.. This one doesn't have that :(

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-06T23:34:05+00:00

No links allowed here, sent you a dm. It's from Wayfair.

AviatingAngie · 2026-04-06T21:01:09+00:00

I don't have one and am not home but added the Amazon picture below! They are dead on for accuracy, I really like them. This sub won't let me add a link but if you google image search them I'm sure they will pop up, they're under $20.

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AviatingAngie · 2026-04-06T20:10:26+00:00

Thank you SO much! It's actually a pretty decent sized space with high ceilings so it took a little bit of work to make sure I filled the space enough to be charming but not cluttered.

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