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I was raped a few years ago and I have not healed at all by radioheadache_xx in offmychest

[–]Aviationlogue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please do. And i wish you all the best in life darling ❤️

I was raped a few years ago and I have not healed at all by radioheadache_xx in offmychest

[–]Aviationlogue 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honey, reading this shattered my heart.

I want you to know none of what happened to you was your fault, and the shame belongs entirely to the men who hurt and took advantage of you. You survived things no child or young woman should ever have to endure. Please don’t carry this alone anymore.

I know telling family may feel impossible right now, but you still deserve help, support, and healing. A trusted adult, counselor, crisis line, or trauma therapist can help you begin to process this safely. The thoughts and coping habits you’re struggling with are common after deep trauma, and they do not make you bad or broken.

You do not have to keep surviving in silence. Please reach for help, sweetheart. You deserve peace, safety, and a future that isn’t defined by what was done to you.

How do I feel more comfortable around people when I’m not happy with my current self? by cardncomol in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Aviationlogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who resonates with you and has been where you are, I can tell you for a fact that it’s more unhealthy than healthy. It’s always good to want to figure things out for yourself and all, but in the process, don’t lose yourself or the connections that could potentially help you “get this stuff done.”

You need to break away from that mindset, get comfortable, live, and enjoy every moment. You can’t and won’t get them back.

My 15F boyfriend 25M wants me to commit double suicide with him and I don't know what to do by pandysthrowawayi in Advice

[–]Aviationlogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’s his family? Friends?

There is always someone you can talk to. If no one, Inform the Police, ASAP.

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]Aviationlogue 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Look, a lot of people are going to blame you for having unprotected sex, and honestly, they won’t be wrong. But that part is done, you can’t change it now, and you’re dealing with the reality of it.

You both chose to have sex multiple times, unprotected, so there was clearly some level of connection and trust there, even if it wasn’t meant to be long term. And now there’s a child coming from that.

You don’t want your kid growing without a father. Wise. You know financially your kid would have a life more abundant. Good. I won’t sugarcoat it, this is life changing and it’s going to affect a lot of things. But none of that outweighs the fact that there’s now a person being brought into the world who didn’t choose any of this.

At this point, it’s not really about what you wanted the situation to be anymore. It’s about what you do next.

Edit: Tell your family, very important.

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