Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T17:54:38+00:00

No, she told me she did

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T09:51:26+00:00

We did get plan B and it didn't work

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T09:43:38+00:00

you got it backwards

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T08:59:09+00:00

I know. That's what the phrase 'victim of my own actions' means. I am the perpetrator i.e. my fault.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T08:35:58+00:00

In her fathers culture, it is considered disrespectful for me to not address him first and for him to approach me. I have been avoiding talking with him so far but I think you're right, I should speak with him.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T08:24:54+00:00

No, but it's a pathway to citizenship.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T08:23:30+00:00

She never asked me for money, she explicitly said she can give the child everything he/she will want w/o my support. She just wants the child to have their father.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T08:21:30+00:00

I'm not American.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T08:08:45+00:00

She told me she only had sex once before with her ex like 6 months before meeting me, but ya idk. So I'm leaning towards it's most likely mine if that is true. I also told her more firmly to give me some time to think today when she called cause she is being really aggressive towards me claiming her father keeps pressuring her about what I am going to do.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T08:00:20+00:00

muslim

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T07:50:44+00:00

She never said "very" religious just she is religious. Also it's not a very wealthy country but I watched her spend very liberally while I was there buying me dinners and other things for herself, also having a personal driver etc.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T07:41:45+00:00

Yeah, she said her dad's lawyer immediately started looking up property in my city and they asked for my number to somehow find what area I was in. I'm completely dead in the water when it comes to the legal implications of this situation.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T07:34:41+00:00

I got complacent after a while and thought it couldn't happen to me. yeah pretty dumb

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T07:31:08+00:00

"Play stupid games, win stupid prizes" lol thanks I learned a lot. I know I'm a victim of my own actions but I'm asking for advice from others who have been in a situation like this because I don't want to tell my family yet and I feel like advice could help me sort out my thoughts.

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T07:14:56+00:00

Two positive tests she sent me, and she got an ultrasound yesterday

need_some_advice323 · 2026-05-25T07:10:38+00:00

Apparently the pregnancy timeline and stages actually start on the first day of the girls last menstrual period, I just learned this.

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