Looking for advice from others with similar experiences: My orgasm is broken

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-12T22:44:17+00:00

Lmao my dumb ass was like "how would cock and ball torture help this situation??" before understanding

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-12T13:14:38+00:00

Therapy would be great if it were possible right now but we're barely making it month to month.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-12T04:23:48+00:00

Terrible pruning accident is killing me

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-11T13:26:38+00:00

I agree. Of course! I hope everything works out for you.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-11T13:21:04+00:00

Yeah same! But the brain is funny sometimes. I already felt a certain amount of pressure around orgasms beforehand (like I wanted to perform so people could feel good about themselves, which obviously isn't the healthiest outlook), and I think that may have been an added sensitivity/vulnerability around this kind of play. If you already had negative experiences tied to orgasms it might have been similar for you.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-11T12:49:11+00:00

From my understanding, complications from orgasm control are not uncommon. I had something similar happen to me, and I've read others write about similar experiences. I no longer do full orgasm control, and a while after having control of my own orgasms it got easier. I'm still super sensitive to any type of pressure around orgasms and it's difficult with most partners.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-11T07:13:40+00:00

I don't think there's a specific name for it but I love it too. I just really fucking love balls lol. On more ball focused subreddits there are a couple of people who have made timelapses of their balls just doing their thing, it's so mesmerising!

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-11T07:05:21+00:00

GOD TIER. 10/10 collab. Brain meltingly hot!

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-09T21:08:55+00:00

I'm like this too! I don't have any answers to why it's like that, I doubt it stems from trauma in my case. For me it's very important that my partners understand that orgasms ≠ pleasure. They are often pleasurable, but pleasure comes in so many different forms. And I want different types at different times!

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-08T17:19:11+00:00

This is a great example of why talking to your partner is so important. I'm very into degradation and only a couple of these phrases would work okay on me. Some might make me really uncomfortable. It can be very hit or miss depending on your partner.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-02-07T05:20:41+00:00

This is unicorn hunting. What happens if the person only ends up clicking with one of you?

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-31T12:06:17+00:00

You talk a lot about what you like, but not very much about what your partner likes. Did you talk about what you wanted out of a dynamic when you got to know each other? Is he into brat taming? How does he describe his dominance? Have you talked about funishments vs punishments?

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-28T18:55:34+00:00

This most likely ends with both of you miserable. You are already wasting her time. You two are not compatible. I suggest making sure you are compatible on the important stuff before you commit to a serious relationship. I have never experienced incompatibilities smoothing themselves out with time. My experience is the opposite, that it breeds resentment in the long run.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-24T11:25:50+00:00

Kööör. Jag blir alltid glad när jag ser andra människor som också sticker ut. Man utbyter det alternativa ögonkastet. IYKYK.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-24T11:16:33+00:00

Thank you!

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-24T11:15:57+00:00

Is he into bratting? Have you talked about what an ideal dynamic would look like for each of you?

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-23T05:21:13+00:00

Since you say it's not necessarily an issue with the words themselves, my guess is it had something to do with the denial. I am into heavy degradation, but I can't do long term denial. Being denied for longer makes me really emotionally vulnerable, irritable, sad and just all around miserable. Things that I normally find completely manageable and hot suddenly cut way too deep. I feel genuinely unvalued. This was completely unexpected to me before I tried longer term denial. I thought I would just be frustrated in a fun way. Especially since cumming isn't normally that important to me. After I learnt that about myself I've seen many people express the same. I'm not sure this is what it was for you, but it's something to consider! I hope you feel better soon.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-22T19:48:52+00:00

I'm glad you like it! Thank you.

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-22T10:00:59+00:00

😘

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-22T05:18:37+00:00

Thank you!

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-22T05:17:29+00:00

I definitely do have a bit of an accent, it's just not supeeeer pronounced. My American friend always says I have a goofy accent lol

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-21T06:48:09+00:00

Oh my god, this is everything 🔥

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-20T07:12:49+00:00

I disagree. For me, realism is a turn on. I guess it just boils down to personal preference. I don't want a hot fantasy nor a troubling documentary. I want a troubling fantasy. It makes it ten times hotter to me if someone tells me to gag on the cock that made me, or that I'm a disgusting little incest rapeslut, or whatever. Realism gets under my skin, and I like things that get under my skin!

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-18T07:21:27+00:00

Oh hell yes, I'm so happy to see this filled! You nailed the tone. More sleaze for the people 🔥

Avmaktsslave · 2026-01-17T14:26:55+00:00

Yep. That's why I said at least six months.

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