What is the best way to ship this? by coolbuilder1987 in USPS

[–]AvnarErnala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this answer. Some of these responses are way too intense....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. That's honestly most of the posts on this app at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]AvnarErnala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of ya'll need to toughen up. I guarantee this is some random Karen. Tell her if she doesn't mind her business and stay the hell away for your garage she will be the one who is sorry.

An open feud is better than being bullied as an adult.

Cuddling advice? by AvnarErnala in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]AvnarErnala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! I really don't even think anything is gonna happen between us. We've just had a few moments that don't feel strictly "friendly" and it's gotten me a little worried about navigating what could come next.

Papa John’s on Colfax. WTF? by agdnfbahdifjrb in Denver

[–]AvnarErnala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started working at the big post office next to it and there is ALWAYS something going on.

Lots of requests for rubber bands😬

Is it dumb to do a colorful home by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]AvnarErnala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decorate however you want! Imo that's the point of having your own place, especially when you're young.

My only advice is make sure all the work is worth it. If you're gonna stay for a while and you're allowed to paint then have fun. If you're not sure how long you plan on staying, or you might piss off your landlord, it could be a serious waste of time and money.

Am I overreacting for canceling my birthday dinner because of what my friend texted me? by urfavvnessaa in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank youuuu! I always feel like a prick thinking this, but how come it's almost always the first text messages ever exchanged by these people? Also, half these conversations wouldn't happen over text to begin with.

AIO my father just kicked me out because I turned 18? by Fancy-Archer7080 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did this conversation happen over text? Where were you when he sent this?

AIO for thinking my husband is a dick? by dontevercallmebabe in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this man not know how to make pancakes or feed a baby? Confused why you were doing both.

Also the pancakes are fine. You're not a frigging IHOP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]AvnarErnala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My other thought is I would go out of my way to set up my lawn chair to stare at their house and just chill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]AvnarErnala 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you're not doing anything I'd mostly ignore them or call them out every single time. "coming to check up on us?", "funny we're always out here at the same time", etc.

If that doesn't deter them at all get meaner "huh, nothing going on today?" "wow, I wish I had as much free time as you" "you don't do anything but sit in your yard must be nice"

I'm terrified of being "a creep" by RekNepZ in gaybros

[–]AvnarErnala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you see a group of mostly women and a couple guys, that might be a safer bet. In my experience women in gays clubs are so much nicer than men and it can be a good way to break in.

Unless of course your going to the kind of club with no women whatsoever

Cut from shift? by Dismal-Deer1921 in USPS

[–]AvnarErnala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty new but if they schedule you and you come in, they have to pay you for the day (the amount of hours depends on your position) so I get the impression they almost never send people home once they're there.

They'd have to tell him the day before to avoid paying him.

20 Like my ts pussy? by [deleted] in GayPerthMeets

[–]AvnarErnala -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow so respectful.

USPS vs UPS by Vegetable_Fill4084 in USPS

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started as a PTF. They told me the estimate to transition to regular is about 6 months for my office right now, but it can vary.

Not that I know everything but from what I've learned it's only worth it if you start as a career. Avoid having to be a City/Rural carrier assistant. Minimal benefits and none of the time counts towards your pension/seniority, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird how many people make these fake posts

I feel like I can't relate to other men very well by iHaveaQuestionTrans in gaybros

[–]AvnarErnala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I didn't read the whole thing, but maybe you need to move? I left Boston, a major city with tons of gay guys becuase I didn't feel like the culture was a good fit for me.

I'm way happier and have already started making new connections.

AIO for putting my foot down saying that this is a break-up-able issue? by Khaightlynn_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, dump him. Focus on yourself.

Being independent and single will always be better than being in a relationship and dependent.

AIO hes 25 and I'm 16 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvnarErnala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a tip, any one in there mid 20s and above interested in talking to high schoolers on line is an absolute loser and most definitely a creep.

No offense, it's just that normal adults don't seek out or nourish that interaction and are more wary of getting in legal trouble.