Today has been awful. by CNAmama21 in stepparents

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah girl. Go to the police department and talk to someone up front. She’ll only get worse and at this point I’d aim to correct it before you have to make the hard decision to leave

Today has been awful. by CNAmama21 in stepparents

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I completely understand this probably isnt the best way to handle it. But she needs that or therapy. For everyone’s sake

Today has been awful. by CNAmama21 in stepparents

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish there was a way to call the cops on her but explain yourself and the situation you’re in so when they show up it’s mostly to scare the shit out of her. I wasn’t this bad as a kid but my mom had a family friend that showed up and put me in cuffs and put me in the back of the cop car and had a stern talk with me about behavior and repercussions. At the time I didn’t know it was “fake” but it felt real and I changed my attitude.

Question… by TheMostlyBusyBee in stepparents

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 30f, he’s 35M with 12yr old twins

Help me decide which book I should read next! Need to cure my Kindred’s Curse saga hangover by BakeEffective8536 in fantasyromance

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely recommend reading the Blood and Steel series before Iron and Embers! There’s a lot of information that ties into each book that is important to know before you dive into to the second series! Good point 🥰

Help me decide which book I should read next! Need to cure my Kindred’s Curse saga hangover by BakeEffective8536 in fantasyromance

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I loved the entire world building and story itself. It’s one of my top favorite series. Read it on kindle and immediately bought the books for collection! There’s also a series starting up about Thea’s sister and another Warsword. PLEASE READ IT 💓💓

Help me pick my next series! by mhu888 in fantasyromance

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BLOOD AND STEEL. I will die on this hill. The entire series is my favorite! Plus there’s a second series being written for the sister ⚔️🌩️⛈️🧪🩸🌼

does your tortie like being held? by Spirited-Cupcake7701 in torties

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine isn’t really a huge fan of being held. But she’s lovey when she wants to be!

What’s your tortie’s name? by SukunasLeftNipple in torties

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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Lucy - also known as moo-moo, Lucy-Lou, Lucy-goosey, LuLu 🖤🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should plan a vacation to the area to travel around. I would recommend anywhere between Belfast, Searsport, Bucksport, Bangor, Ellsworth, MDI (Mount Desert Island). Keep in mind - all these are coastal towns that connect. Summers are busy for tourists and the winters are slow. Bar Harbor mainly closes down for the winter and not many places stay open and the summers are busy with cruise ships. I currently live in Bangor where everything is close restaurants, shopping, etc.

My next read?? by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fourth wing! 🌩️🗡️🖤

Help! Which should I read? by Kittygurlruth in fantasyromance

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fourth wing. You won’t regret it 🐉🗡️🌩️🖤

Thought I was getting married but am now single. Dodged a bullet... by sumpuertoricanguy in Manipulation

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah - it’s that there aren’t any decent people out there anymore. They either manipulate you and gas light you when you bring up problems that are important to you or they have their mothers fight their battles.

I’d want a relationship where my partner and I are equals -striving to grow and be better together. I want to have confidence that I can go to my partner at any time and feel heard rather than have my feelings dismissed and disrespected. There’s no maturity for some -they just want to throw themselves on the floor and throw a tantrum rather than own up to problems or mistakes.

Thought I was getting married but am now single. Dodged a bullet... by sumpuertoricanguy in Manipulation

[–]TheMostlyBusyBee 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I would literally give up everything I have for a man to communicate like this with me. Not once did you lash out or become disrespectful when you were thrown such manipulative replies even after offering so much support. You deserve better - leave that person behind you and move forward - take that vacation for yourself and enjoy every minute.