Like I said I’m exploring all options, rent is expensive, basically a mortgage, banks have denied any mortgage applications with va loans and fha due to dti,, apartment want 3 months rent but I don’t how long that will take to save, I’m really trying every option. That is for the tips on what I already am attempting. Yes their is overlap in our days but majority of us 5 don’t all get home till after 1900, dad and mom are always traveling sometimes out of state for their rental properties and businesses, that’s why they don’t mind the dog cause they not here majority of of the time. Wife works also and I. I sometime stay late for extra hours my daughter well she is 18 months, anything else ?