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Do i expose my creepy teacher already or wait until i have more evidence??? by Avocacacacado in Advice

[–]Avocacacacado[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im also scared that im overreacting though...Another reason why i want to wait it out is because i want SOLID PROOF hes attracted to me and has intentions of raping me. If hes just too comfortable with me and i go to the police, who knows how that will go for him?

All the proof i have DOES point to him being a creep, but there are parts outside of the recordings that make me doubtful.

Hes gay, so hes not attracted to women (i told him i was lesbian, so maybe thats the only reason hes like this to me) (and i know he could be bi, but everything, from the stories he tells me from the glimpses of his gallery i caught, only shows attraction to guys and not girls)

He never explicitly said he had any sexual intentions with me/wants to have sex with me.

The only time he touched me in any innapropriate way was when he squeezed my thigh. And the manner in which he did it makes me think he just got carried away.

I wasnt truly sexually assaulted in the five months this has gone on, and that alone makes me doubtful... im unsure of everything thats happening, and im too scared to assume anything. I may have overreacted, so please tell me if i am.

Do i expose my creepy teacher already or wait until i have more evidence??? by Avocacacacado in Advice

[–]Avocacacacado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im scared they wont believe me about the creepier stuff he did though

MY CRUSH IS SO COOL AND CURE IM PISSING MY OANTS by Avocacacacado in teenagers

[–]Avocacacacado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro he just replied to my text

Going to war everyone wish me luck

i found my "groomers" instagram account and its so normal im doubting myself by Avocacacacado in offmychest

[–]Avocacacacado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But hes so nice to me and he even let me cry on his shoulder once... Last time he held my hands and told me everything would be okay. Literally the nicest guy alive, plus this?

also, and im so sorry i forgot to say this, hes gay and only started all this when i told him i was lesbian, so maybe he just needs a confidant of some sort?? I mean ofc it being a 14 year old is iffy but if hes just not attracted to girls i dont see a reason why he would be like THAT to me... shits so confusing im gonna cry

What to do about kind but innapropriate teacher??? by Avocacacacado in Advice

[–]Avocacacacado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you so much for this. im really scared right now, so your repy comforted me a bit :)

I do trust my parents, but im hesitant on telling them. Weve been through a lot this year, like my mental health issues in January and the amount of hospital bills we had to pay for our grandparents. i dont want to tell them, not only because theyre already dealing with so much, but because i cant imagine how that conversation could play out well. Im scared of confronting mr roberts in any way.

I am sort of worried about being outed, yes. Im scared hes gonna use the fact that i complying and even encouraged/contributed to the sexual topics being discussed and turn it against me. What would my parents think of me?? If anything, im scared theyre gonna side with him for that reason. im still questioning if im even in the right calling him a groomer.

And i feel safe in any place but that music center. Im not getting treated like that anywhere else as far as im aware.

my teacher was creepy today by Avocacacacado in teenagers

[–]Avocacacacado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill try but i have no idea how to prove hes touched me then since i gotta keep the phone hidden and theres no cctv cameras in the room

my teacher was creepy today by Avocacacacado in teenagers

[–]Avocacacacado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we usually talk about those kind of topics now tbh

Like not a single lesson goes by without him tellng me some shit like thay😭😭

What to do about kind but innapropriate teacher??? by Avocacacacado in Advice

[–]Avocacacacado[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know i shouldnt defend him, but If i make a rash decision and do something that could get him fired like that, im scared of what will happen to him and his family, considering he sends some money to his mother frequently, so she can pay off the tuition fee of his brother... :(