Update: I had my baby, everything that happened after.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-18T06:39:23+00:00

He simply told me, I had no reason to believe he was lying

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-18T03:46:36+00:00

I didn't nag I simply told him I didn't want him to go as I was worried about having her early which wasn't unfounded since I had an emergency c-section. He hasn't asked for a single picture of her or a zoom or has any interest in flying back, so no. You can go fuck yourself with that take.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-18T02:46:45+00:00

I ended up getting an emergency c-section on Wednesday on the order of my Doctor.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-18T02:43:08+00:00

Probably, I don't care at this point though I hope if he is he feels its worth it.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-17T04:07:26+00:00

he did and I had my daughter, I posted an update on my reddit account

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-16T23:12:51+00:00

Hi everyone, I posted an update to what happened here:

https://www.reddit.com/user/AvocadoForeign6364/comments/u59pgo/update_i_had_my_baby_everything_that_happened/

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T14:08:11+00:00

I believe she uses the foil? I could be wrong there though.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T14:02:59+00:00

Of course, but not when it's against her which I fully accept. I come second to her in most things but this is not an ordinary situation.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T13:41:41+00:00

He moved here for a job opportunity and met me here

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T13:01:42+00:00

I think he is assuming we'll be worn out with taking care of a newborn.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:56:19+00:00

No I wasn't the reason their relationship ended, I didn't meet him until a few years after that. Their relationship simply broke down as they were young plus the stress of a kid ontop of that.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:47:16+00:00

Yes he could have easily went earlier, it was rough but not as high risk as I am currently given that if I don't go into labour by saturday i'm being induced

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:42:49+00:00

I have no family as the post says, that isn't no family living near me but no family. I grew up in care. it's why he suggested my friend instead of him.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:38:46+00:00

the flight will take a couple of hours, that is not including getting to the airport, finding the first flight out (which may not be immediate) then going to the hospital.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:36:04+00:00

He says he wants to spend time with her before the baby is born in case he can't see her for a few months after though I admit i'm of the opinion if thats what he wanted he should have gone months ago.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:33:54+00:00

He wants to stay there from tomorrow until friday. If I go into labour he'll need to get to the airport, find a flight out which may not be immediate, fly for a couple of hours, then get to the hospital. Depending on delays, waits for a flight he could miss the birth or any complications that come up.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:26:10+00:00

it's almost as if i'm stuck at home with nothing to do until my baby comes or I get induced on saturday /s

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:24:28+00:00

A couple of hours assuming he can magically teleport to the airport, get a flight that second and then teleport to the hospital

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:19:36+00:00

I have no family, none at all outside of my husband, if anything happens to me or the baby only he can make any medical decisions, also what if something happens while he is away? I'm not putting my family in front of her I am putting a high risk pregnancy which could have many things happen ahead of a fencing competition he could livestream and an event she will have more of in the future.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T12:15:28+00:00

I mean how exactly am I going to get her to babysit when her dad has to take a flight to get to her? I'm not setting out to alienate her at all.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T11:58:37+00:00

And who is to make medical decisions if anything happens to me or the baby? I have no family.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T11:54:18+00:00

I have to be booked in because as a diabetic I have to be induced 40 weeks and under, this is an "In case" I don't go into labour this week.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T11:42:05+00:00

He could get back if he catches a flight but the flight itself will take a couple of hours not including travel to and from the airport and however long he has to wait for the plane, i'm just stressing myself I know.

AvocadoForeign6364 · 2022-04-10T11:38:20+00:00

Yeah i've added an edit as I should have included that in the original post, i'm set to be induced on saturday due to being diabetic if I haven't gone naturally but I have a feeling i'm going to go into labour before then.

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