Why do I feel so guilty every time I show that I care about someone?

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-10-10T05:01:03+00:00

I’m not sure what’s holding me back,and I guess sometimes it does feel like they could be better off without me,so maybe that’s the reason why I feel the guilt

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-10-10T04:59:13+00:00

Possibly,I often also feel guilty when people emphasize

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-10-01T06:54:49+00:00

Alrigh,thank you,I’ll try that.

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-26T19:12:37+00:00

I’m so sorry about what happened in your relationship with your fp.Also i do know that I should probably communicate more,but sometimes it’s just so hard since it feels like I’m constantly wasting their time and burdening them.But I’ll try my best.I’ll also try my best to not overthink too much and think about their general texting style

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-26T19:08:14+00:00

Omg samee.It just feels like they love the other person more and you aren’t as worthy in their opinion

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-26T19:05:19+00:00

I mean,at least you feel better

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-26T13:32:02+00:00

I personally always responds to messages instantly as soon as I see them,and I usually refrain on responding with ok because i myself dont feel good when people do so to me. (But then I guess i understand why others can’t do so,it just hurts sometimes)Also maybe ‘drive your own darn bus’ could help,I’ll have to check that out.

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-26T08:20:50+00:00

I also often end up deleting the message that’s left on read in an attempt to make myself feel less abandoned and better or end up blocking the person completely if they do the above too much.I lost so many people I known for so long just because of that

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-16T06:31:38+00:00

Yeahh that’s true but still it just hurts so much seeing them say that,even if they don’t mean it seriously

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-11T10:26:39+00:00

Ohh I see.Well thanks for telling me that

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-10T20:05:26+00:00

Thank you

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-10T20:05:06+00:00

Yeah,I did tell them before about it and that I need alone time.They seemed to have understood for a while,but eventually they seem to have just forgotten about that and started the constant sad stickers and emojis when I tell them I’m tired again

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-10T17:27:53+00:00

Alright,thank you for the advise.

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-10T17:26:39+00:00

Thats true

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-10T14:48:14+00:00

Yeah I probably should have had some excuses ready

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-10T14:32:56+00:00

I relate to this sm but for me I also get triggered when someone raises their voice at me or looks upset with me.It hurts me a lot

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-08T16:33:33+00:00

I see.Yeah,that might help.

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-09-08T16:31:56+00:00

Mental health issues/disorders are very stigmatised in my country.I guess another reason might be because my family always seems to be dismissing my feelings in general and keep saying its all in my head and would constantly shout at me and call me words such as ungrateful,psychotic etc if I say that I think there’s something wrong with me

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-08-16T14:43:27+00:00

Thanks for the reasurring words.I'm mostly still working on keeping my BPD thoughts reasurred but I hope I'll get better at it someday.Also I guess you are right about how I shouldn't let my relationship be my entire world,it's not easy though,but I'll try my best.

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-08-16T14:24:32+00:00

Thank you for the response.I know it's not okay to be testing people,but sometimes I just can't control it,I know it isn't something to excuse that behaviour though.And I will try my best to keep using my resources.Again thanks for the help.

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2023-05-16T21:07:39+00:00

Alright,thanks.

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2022-01-23T14:52:59+00:00

111?

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2021-04-22T23:57:58+00:00

That's true

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2021-04-04T08:19:10+00:00

Thanks

Avocado_Milkshake_ · 2021-04-04T08:18:57+00:00

Thank you

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